i'm not sure this is the right place to post this but i need help and support. im at the point that im ready to just give up and give in. it seems that its one thing after another and so on. i had surgery on my knee in september and am still having some problems with it especially with the weather changes i will admit its better than it was. for the last few months ive been very sick. i cant hold food down for very long and it is mainly at night when i try to lay down and sleep i wake up and start throwing up for no reason. i feel very weak. i saw a specialist at the begining of the month.i have to have another surgery on may 17th to dialate my throat so i can swallow food and not have it get suck in my throat. so for the next 3 months i can only have food that i can not chew pretty much a liquid diet. that wouldnt be so bad because i dont eat much anyways but i cant even sit down to a decent meal with my daughter. that brings me to the next screw up. my therapist left and i am waiting for her to get certified with the insurance i have so i can continue to work with her. and right now its a waiting game. i havent had therapy in 4 weeks or so and im holding everything in because i dont want to burden anyone else with this crap. put on my happy mask and just pretend that everything is fine even though it feels like my world is spiraling out of control. next month on the 22nd is the two year anniversary of my brothers death he took his life. with everything that is going on right now im so mad at him for leaving me here. i need him and he is gone. it hurts so much. i dont want to hurt people but i dont know how to keep doing this on my own. im losing my will power. i havent self-harmed for awhile now, but im so close to doing it it scares me. i just want things to calm down i want to get control back and i cant figure out how to do this anymore. i just want to end it im to tired to keep fighting on my own but others dont need my drama or problems