I have decided it is time to be a bit more proactive about my wish to have someone special in my life. I am the type that needs to love and give more than I need to be loved back...I just love having a partner to share life with. Sooo.... I am going to be a bit more assertive, ask men out on my own, join a dating service (I know but it is a start in the right direction and certainly proactive besides ya never know). My question is this....When is the best time to mention I struggle with depression/sadness and get down from time to time and really need my partner to be understanding and supportive rather than run away on me? Any thoughts and shared experiences are appreciated. Thanks everyone!