Where are some members?

Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by Hurted, Jan 11, 2009.

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  1. Hurted

    Hurted Well-Known Member

    I don't know, but i really miss some members that were here 1 year ago, when i join. :(

    Like usahana (she changed name later but i forgot it), pixie, corriah infected and many more. :(

    I feel so alone on here lately, don't know why...

    There are still some members that PM me, but i wonder where everybody else is. Are they even alive?
  2. ToHelp

    ToHelp Well-Known Member

    *raises hand*


    Hi Hurted :rose: :hug: :flowers:
  3. aki

    aki Well-Known Member

    usahana is my melody now I'm pretty sure?

    do you mean A_Pixie, because she's still around.

    corieh infected drops in sometimes.

  4. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    yes usahana is mymelody.
  5. Hurted

    Hurted Well-Known Member

    Hello! It's been a long time since i talked with you:)

    How are you?

    Hm... Thanks.

    Why the hell is it allowed to change names?:dry:
    It would be a mess if everyone would suddenly change their names over night:laugh:
  6. ToHelp

    ToHelp Well-Known Member

    I have that same peeve, for when people are allowed to change their names on little more than a whim, what happens to the cohesion that makes a community?
  7. wheresmysheep

    wheresmysheep Staff Alumni

    yes, i'm finding the forum incredibly lonely and empty lately. i go to chat just for company but even tahts bad now.

    feeling worse everyday
  8. helena

    helena Staff Alumni

    Though I myself get very confused with it, it's not as often as it seems...;a member is allowed to change his name every 6 months.
    Name changes are allowed in the first place to protect members, the first request I remember were because people, family member or something, found out they were getting here and member wont feel safe to come here anymore.
  9. Hurted

    Hurted Well-Known Member

    I understand that. But i dont think that that's the only reason people have, some probaly just get bored with their names...

    It's hard to recognise some members sometimes (i needed a month to recognise sweetheart for example:biggrin:)
  10. gentlelady

    gentlelady Staff Alumni

    It can be confusing when you go away for awhile and come back thinking you know no one only to find out many have changed their names
  11. lonelymortal

    lonelymortal Well-Known Member

    I'm not really known around here or anything but usually i'm too depressed to post...
  12. ToHelp

    ToHelp Well-Known Member


    Well just remember everyone, alienation is the ultimate price of anonymity. Hurted's story of Sweetheart is just unnacceptable.

    I'll be leaving SF very soon. There are so many comings and goings and no cohesion; less and less community so (from MY p.o.v.) what's the use?

  13. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    sorry for causing confusion :hug:
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