1. What happened to the times when people actually supported others? Where if a person had a problem everyone rallied around them and tried to help them in any way possible. What happened to the times of people actually giving a shit about others?? I mean actually caring, not the fake bullshit that you see. I remember times when people would come in and actually mean what they say. I am not directing this at anyone in particular. To those that were around a year ago, you know what I'm talking about, whether you say something or not..you know. 2. What happened to the times when there was general banter in chat that didn't turn into a debate or fight? Those times are long gone. You used to be able to come into chat and just talk...I mean actually talk..and not get screamed at, told to shut up, told to change the subject..etc. People could have a normal, everyday conversation and could also talk about what was bothereing them. Nowadays someone comes in to discuss a health problem and they get told to change the subject. What happened to the days of helping that person, giving them advice. Now it's "this triggers me" or "that triggers me" Is every word known to man triggering? I am not trying to be mean or start anything I'm just curious as to what happened to the days when people could actually talk without getting their heads taken off for actually talking. I'm sorry if this upsets anyone...I won't be surprised when it turns into a debate or fight, gets locked or deleted. I just want to voice my opinion and my thoughts because lately the maturity level and the amount of fights in chat are getting ridiculous. For a support site I see more fighting(yes ive been in some and I've tried lately to stay out of them) than support. I see more bickering about pointless dribble, more people arguing about shit that reaelly doesnt matter at the end of the day when there are people begging for someone to just listen to them..not say anything...just listen..but they can't be heard or seen b/c there's fights going over top them When does it become to to basically grow up and start helping peopel instead of breaking them down and hindering them from moving on and getting better?? When??