:sad:About 10 years ago Iwas repeatedly raped and sexually abused by my college roommate. I have tried to find help but I have been unable to find someone I am comfortable talking to. I keep getting the feeling that I am being judged. My college roommate was a female as am I and because of this I have been told by 2 different counselors that they can' t help me. I was also told that it wasn't really rape because it was a same sex situation. I am not gay and I wasn't then but everyone assumes I was because of this. Does anyone know where to turn for help in dealing with rape by the same sex?