I'm pushing 30 and a post-graduate student. My wife is disabled, but the Social Security Disability folks won't recognize it, so we're roughly $40K in credit card debt from her bills and I'm working full time again while trying to finish law school. Every minute of every day I'm cooking, or studying, or working, or in class, or bathing her, and none of it gets done as well as it needs to. None of it. I'm slowly but surely losing this battle, and if something doesn't change soon, the whole house of cards will be coming down sometime around Christmas. I can see it coming. We can't afford her medications anymore and we can't afford her insurance payment this month. We were lucky to make rent. I just don't see how we can keep doing this. And I know she needs me, but I just need to stop feeling like this. Whatever that takes.