Maybe some people think I'm stupid and ugly, but others may think I'm clever and handsome. So which is true? All descriptions of me are meaningless, I'm tall to some people, short to others. So there is no 'me'. Now if I were to die tonight some people would say "Oh your parent would miss you" but if there's no 'me' then who would they miss? All they would miss is something which they'd created within their own minds. That just seems a bit odd to me. What's it got to do with me? It's more about their own thought patterns surely?