I was recently at a session and I bought a piece of paper with all the items I wanted to discussed, and asked various questions. Near the end, she asked if I wanted to swap places and run the show, I said sure hand me your notepad, but then she said she was only joking. Because I would wait to hear her opinion, and say "yeah okay" then launch into the next topic. Other times she has said she doesn't mind me talking over the top of her etc as some people have told her that she is too chatty. Getting mixed messages. But just curious, how is it supposed to be, and what do counsellors think of people who come in with their lists and what they want to discuss etc. I also showed her a little video on my ipod as I was discussing this motorcycle accidents, and I also show her pictures that are relevant to what I am discussing.