Being in control..... is it not just our fears being manipulated or redirected (by either oursleves or others)? It seems that fear is what really motivates and controls our lives. We spend our childhood, adolescence and adulthood fearful of our past present and future. Every single human at one time in their life (and unfortunately for some,all their lives) fear even our eventual end. Are we really living our lives or are we actually spending a lifetime just trying to stay one step ahead of our fears? Is our entire existance based on the control that our fears, which we create ourselves or that others create and manipulate, have over us?