My girlfriend and i have just had a big fight. And here's why - I wanted to spend this Saturday night hanging out with my friends and she didn't have anything planned. In other words if she has nothing planned on the weekend I have to spend time with her. Listen, of course I don't mind spending time with her - she is my girlfriend after all. Its just that sometimes, and I think rightly so, I want to spend time with my friends. It just happens that if she hasnt got something planned on those nights that I do I get in to really big trouble. The situation that seems to have developed is this: 1. I am responsible for her entertainment if she has nothing planned. 2. I must 'book ahead' at least a week if I want to spend time with my friends. 3. Any time that I am doing nothing or have nothing planned I must spend with her (unless she has something planned). 4. Any activity must meet her approval. Why is she so clingy and needy? What did she do before she met me? Why cant she be responsible for entertaining herself when I'm not arround? Heres what I think is fair: We don't live together but have going out for 2 years. I am happy to spend any night of the week with her (we work during the day) but on the weekend I want to spend one night with her and one night with my friends. What do you guys think?