Hey I've specifically worded the title this way, as, I was going to write Are relationships worth it? The answer to that is 'heck, not at all'. I'm not really interested in a debate about if it is or isn't. I'm not specifying which kind of relationship, for all relationships make you vulnerable. And it applies to all. I think they aren't worth it. However, I want to hear why you think they are worth it. How they help you. I'm asking as been hurt by AH. According to R he was being human and R asked why I'm setting the bar so high. Coz' I can't handle someone I've let in being human, perhaps. Or of course I can't. For I get hurt. And not sure how to handle it. Oh well. Why do you think the vulnerability of being in a relationship with someone is worth the risk it carries?