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why does it always seem that people are out to get me?

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Could be a lot of things, many times if we have seen a lot of hurt or violence, when know it exists and fear it, or especially if you have been hurt and ect...but some just have disorders that associate with Paranoia...



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if you feel like everyone is out to get you...well....I feel like that all the time. It helps to just cry, until you can't cry anymore and hit a pillow. just a suggesion, it might not work for you.
 

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If you think that people in general are out to get you, that's paranoia. For example, you don't know me but if we met, what are the chances that you would think I was out to get you? If the answer is "good," then you are delusional because we've never met, and you have nothing to base this on.

I've believed that my parents were out to get me, but that was because of the evidence for them only. You cannot believe that about everyone, or even most people. Logically it makes no sense. I hope you are able to see that and heal...
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#6
yes i know it may be delusional but so many people have turned their back on me in the past i just don't feel like i can trust anybody. everyone always wants something from me and i just don't feel like giving just so these leeches hang on to me for a little longer.

my experiences in the past have turned me off to meeting anyone at all, i am basically a shut in except on the rare occasions i go to college classes. i think i am so used to being alone i don't know what it is like to have a real friend, or how to make friends. part of me is crushed by loneliness and the desire to meet anyone and the other part is filled with hatred of myself and everyone else.

i just don't know how to begin changing my life
 
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I been where your at. You have to decide to risk relating to people. Here is what you need to do. You need to learn to set boundaries for yourself. There is a book called "Boundaries" by Dr. Townsend. You need to go to a library and check it out.

Once you have an understanding of how to set healthy boundaries... then you can talk to people but just a little at a time and wait and see what their response will be. That way you don't get hurt so badly.
 
#8
Hey "Ooo",
I don't really think you're paranoid my friend, or that you have any kind of disorder. I know where you're coming from. I dated a girl once and her sister and mother hated me for no reason. Some people are just out to make people they don't like feel like complete shit. You will never win in a situation like that. You can't tell the people who are pissing you off why are you doing this to me? Because they see nothing wrong with it at all.
 
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I been where your at. You have to decide to risk relating to people. Here is what you need to do. You need to learn to set boundaries for yourself. There is a book called "Boundaries" by Dr. Townsend. You need to go to a library and check it out.

Once you have an understanding of how to set healthy boundaries... then you can talk to people but just a little at a time and wait and see what their response will be. That way you don't get hurt so badly.
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