Hi all, Just a rant! My girlfriend of 4 years doesnt respect my job or the hard work I put into it (even though it pays for about 80% of the activities we do but thats another rant for another day). I'm a web designer and I really like my work. Its a competitive industry so, knowing this, I slaved away doing free work every chance I could get to increase my skill and portfolio whilst I studied. I finally landed a really good job at a super cool company and am really enjoying the work. Yet she doesnt seem to give a stuff. She wants me to quit next year so we can move to another city so she can focus on her career (shes still in college). Shes not even planning on trying to finding a job here, where we live now. Further more she wants me to take a month of holiday right when my works busiest period is (but, conveniently for her when college holidays are on). This isnt possible. My boss wont agree to it and if I try to tell her this she just gets angry and tells me 'its just a job' and to quit. Its always nag nag nag to quit my good job. Why does she do this?