Why is he cheating on me?

Discussion in 'Family, Friends and Relationships' started by Iknowyou, Jul 28, 2013.

  1. Iknowyou

    Iknowyou New Member

    My boyfriend has cheated on me.... Tells me that he loves me!?? But why cheating than??
  2. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    because the only person he loves is himself hun He is not worth of your love and you deserve so much better h ugs
  3. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    Cheating is sleazy. It is low. He does not/did not deserve you. If willing, please try and share more about what's going on with you, and we will try and help :hug:
  4. Witty_Sarcasm

    Witty_Sarcasm Eccentric writer, general weirdo, heedless heathen

    You should leave him, if you haven't already...you deserve a lot better than someone who will lie to you and hurt you. There's never any excuse for doing that to someone, and it doesn't sound like he loves you at all if he is willing to cheat.
  5. Lux

    Lux Well-Known Member

    I personally think anyone can do better than anyone who cheats. Cheats don't tend to change unfortunately. You're worth better, it'll be hard at the beginning, but eventually you'll start to realise that you're worth so much more than someone as low as that. <3
  6. krazor

    krazor Active Member

    Because he is a no good scumbag. Ditch him he will never be faithfull to you. Find somebody who needs and wants only you.
    hope your ok x
  7. Mayflower7

    Mayflower7 Banned Member

    Hi Iknowyou,
    You deserve better, he was excited by someone else. If he did love you, he wouldn't have hurt you.
    You will find somebody better, sorry this happened.
    Take care
  8. rtrt46546565

    rtrt46546565 Well-Known Member

    Most guys just don't really love their girlfriends.

    Sorry he did that to you. :(
  9. marklondon

    marklondon Well-Known Member

    Sorry, but I really don't think that's fair. I'm a guy who has profoundly and very seriously loved two women, and I was very loyal and devoted to them--one for four years, the other for eight years. The second one ended up cheating on me, having a very serious, prolonged affair. I don't think this is about men being worse than women--women are just as likely to betray and harm.

    My advice to the original poster: Whatever happens, it's not your fault he's cheating on you--it's his fault, and his fault only. He may try to blame you for it--they usually do. This is a lie. There are people out there who won't cheat on you. They are much more worthy of your time and love.
  10. 1112222

    1112222 Well-Known Member

    Because he is a arsehole thats why.