okay i put this in here because well i am sure some here may have been mistreated by their family or loved ones but then again may not? anyway i just wonder why do family members mistreat each other? i never could understand why they do that and i mean i have been more then helpful to my younger brother chris. so much that i went into debt for him i pawned my car title to me subaru to get him a wood stove. i already had one but he didn't so i pawned my title to buy him a stove, then his truck torn up so i then borrowed money on a sig loan to get him a tranny. This was when he didn't have a job but had told me he would help me pay it off when he got his income tax refund, well he got a refund buit could not even loan me $200 when i asked him to borrow some money Well he had been helping me with getting me abouty 100 worth of food each month, however this month he has decided not to help me. get this, he has a ghreat job, makes 12'50 an hour and brings home around 450 to? every week. he doesn't pay rent he stays here free on land that i make a mortage payment on each month. now seeing as how i have 2 big bills to pay for helping him when he was down, i don't have any for food this month and he cant even give me 100 to buiy some with? I have never mistreated him ever and yet i always let myself get hurt. well not gonna happen anymore. he is gonna have to find him a place to live because i am selling out and he is not getting a dime of it at all. so i guess i am just wondering why do family members mistreat each other?