So many of us ask "why?". Have you ever asked the question, "why not?". I ask this because I know a woman whose husband may be dying of Cancer. They have been very blessed for the most part and are really wonderful, giving people and they recognize that, so she said, "So many people ask 'why me?', and I ask 'why not me?'" This just struck me as an amazing question from someone going through a horrible tragedy. Thoughts? Is this a better question?