Why would he cheat....

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by Trance, Apr 13, 2008.

  1. Trance

    Trance Well-Known Member

    Do some men just not understand when they have a good thing?

    How did he suddenly push the fact that my mothers been there for 19 years into the back of his mind?

    Did he think about the 5 children my mother gave him when he went to her house?

    Did he think about the 5 children my mother gave him when he snuck her into the house while his kids were at school and his wife at work?

    Is he just heartless?

    How can he stand to look at us, his children, with a smile on his face while he cheats on our mother, and how and should I tell her?

    What women wants to hear from her 16 year old daughter that her husband is cheating on her, and is it even my place to tell her?

    I want to kill him

    He told that bitch that his feelings are beginning to grow for her and he spent the night at her house last night, he didn’t get in till 6 in the morning.

    Perhaps I’ll drive a knife in his heart so he can bleed away those feelings.

    If feel disappointed in him, enraged that he may have slept with her, fearful that he may bring my mother a disease back, and psychotic with thoughts of killing him.
  2. gentlelady

    gentlelady Staff Alumni

    Is your dad aware that you know? I think he should come clean with your mom. It isn't something you should have to do. If you can, let him know what you have seen and give him a set amount of time to tell your mom about it or you will. She needs to be protected from possible diseases as you mentioned. I do not know why people have to be unfaithful to one another. A flaw in human nature that I wish wasn't there. This is not an easy situation for anyone to be placed in. i will keep you in my thoughts. Let us know how things are progressing for you. :hug:
  3. resistance

    resistance Staff Alumni

    :arms: I don't understand either sweetie. The only one who can answer that question is your dad. I agree with all gentle said, it's your dads place to tell your mum, give him a certain amount of time and if he doesn't then it looks like you'll have to be the one to break the bad news. Be ready for your mum, from what you said it sounds like she's going to need you more than ever. :hug:
  4. Will

    Will Staff Alumni

    I understand what you mean, though I don't understand what drives a person to it. Because I think no one should have a reason to cheat, it's just a devastating thing to do in a relationship. I understand that the person might not realize it until after it's done, but it doesn't make it right. It's really hard to deal with :sad:

    I hope you can get through this, it's a real hell. :hug: