Why do so many of us turn inward to cause pain to ourselves rather that put the pain where it belongs...betrayal, ignorance, cruelty, violence. These things exists in this crazy world, but they do not define an individual. They do not define who you are or I am. It seems we are so sensitive to the horror around us that the only way we can cope is to turn it inward, when in fact it all has nothing to do with who we are. We take the pain in, and with nothing else to do with it, make ourselves the perpetrators. When in fact, we are the ones who love.