I chose Mr Invisible because that's exactly who I am, I am 29 with a 5 year old girl. My ex left me over a year ago and I sacrificed all my interests and friends so that we could buy our own place. I am now left paying the hefty mortgage with no friends and I get to see my little girl a few nights a week. I know it doesn't sound too bad, I have a good job, and in ok health, but I am shut away in my office all day, to go to an empty home each night with my phone ringing or a knock at the door. The only thing that stops me is my little girl, but I am working my socks off just so I can spend precious few hours with my daughter. I can't move away and start again as I would see my daughter even less and all I think about is at least one day my daughter will inherit my flat. Like I have to remind myself that I am only 29. I took insurances on my mortgage purley so if I ended it she would get the full value of my place, so I ask myself, what am I waiting for? I guess it's knowing that she will be brought up correctly. But it's got to the point that it's not enough anymore, I need some time for me, a life, but there is no way I can see to get that anymore with barely no money and no circle of friends. Sorry for the rant, I am so lost inside but having to keep a happy face to avoid any questions, to ensure I go carry on undetected.