why do ppl think it's ok to say hurtful things and upset you. Then when they are pulled up about it they give the same answer " i didn't mean to hurt them" if they don't mean to then why do it in the first place an why is there never any punishment dealt to them other than don't do it again. This is stupid as the damage has already been done, and an apology passed on from someone else doesn't undo that hurt. I'm struggling with things at the moment and the last thing i need is some idiot taking the piss out of me.