Why's life like this

Discussion in 'I Have a Question...' started by resistance, Jan 20, 2008.

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  1. resistance

    resistance Staff Alumni

    Why is life so hard? If I were to write out two lists, one being good things happened in my life, and the other being a list of negative, I'm certain the bad would outway the good by a landslide.

    I take a step into the good direction, then something always happens and I'm back in the shit again. I have tried in this world. Oh I really have but nothing goes right. I'm not exaggerating either.

    I sometimes wonder if life just isn't made for me? I must have done something terribly wrong to be rejected continuously. Time after time. When will things start going right? When?

    I'm waiting. For how long I'll wait, I don't know. I just want something to go right. I'm losing faith fast.
  2. danni

    danni Chat Buddy

    :hug: i'm here for you hun :hug:
  3. BlackPegasus

    BlackPegasus Well-Known Member

  4. Petal

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  5. Dave_N

    Dave_N Guest

    Hi resistance. Life is challenging, because we need challenges in our lives so that we can grow and learn from these experiences, and untimately become stronger individuals. No one has life easy, except for rich snobs. The rest of us 'common folk' have to work hard and endure pain and suffering and hopefully overcome it.
  6. New-Hope

    New-Hope Well-Known Member

    I find myself asking that question every single day.
    I really wish I knew why life was so hard too. It's really unfair that some of us should get it harder than others. It's ususally the nice people that end up getting all the hardships too. Anyone else notice that?
    I suppose those that get it hard end up being better people later on in life.
    Suppose we've just got to keep hoping that the day that life will get better will be tomorrow...
  7. Will

    Will Staff Alumni

    Res :sad: :hug:

    Those days are hard. It's hard to even look at it like 'oh, today's just a bad day', because these days are rough, and come often. The only thing I've ever been able to do is 'float' through it till it wears off and then just try again. I'm sorry I can't really say anything to help, but I know how much it sucks :sad:

    Thinking of you, :hug:

    You'll make it :smile:
  8. Light_In_The_Dark

    Light_In_The_Dark Well-Known Member

    :hug: Hey res. I know how you feel. I felt like that once. I talked to priest from my village and he told me that everything in life must be in a balance: good and evil, good things to happen in life and bad things to happen in your life. So hang in there! Dont back down and dont let those things to get you. You are stronger than you think and more stronger than others think! And dont lose your faith. Churchill said: "When you go through hell, just keep going!". What doesnt kill us, make us stronger! You are on of the strongest persosn I know and I always think of you when Im feeling bad and I get inspired and uplifted by your words! Stay safe and strong! Im always here for you!

    You are always in my prayers!
    SEMPER FIDELIS! Your Light In The Dark
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