I am so unhappy, my wife has walked out after we have been together for 10 years, she is my soulmate, i cant believe she has done this. We are talking and she says she does not know whether she wants to come back, i am scared and confused, all these thoughts are going through my head, i dont want to lose her. But i think i already have, she said we should take space for a while and now its 3 weeks, but i miss her terribly, I hate myself at the moment, just want the pain to end. I know its not definitely over, but each day we are apart i think that she is going to run away and blame me for all her own problems. I love her to bits and this is killing me inside, she has stuck with me through some bad times as i suffered a bit with depression, but recently she has started to withdraw and her family say she is depressed (and i got the blame for that too as she "felt" she was supressing herself by not going out as much when we moved places). She is living with her parents at the moment and most of her clothes are still here and other stuff. I love her so much and she knows it, but she says that she is terrified i will return to my old ways (not going out etc). I hate myself at the moment.