Ok so here is my thought. I have another thread somewhere about the way I see the world. Basically it says if something is ment to happen it will. So my question is regarding mates, or significant others. I figure that if a person is truly interested in me they will approach me, and they will pursue me. You see I am moderately paranoid and think very little of myself. So I would automatically unconsciously reject any and all "advances" on myself. I honestly do not know what flirting is or how to flirt or when I have being flirted with. I never learned these things. But that aside since I am a male it is assumed that the male makes the advances. Well I believe that is complete and utter crap. I believe that if a female, or other male I really don't care. Wants to make an advance on me they will. But I am told very much so otherwise. I have been told by a majority of people that if I think that way I will be alone. So what do you guys think? Honestly, none of this "well it varies from person to person" crap that I get everywhere. Based on your observations of the universe around you what do you think? Will I be alone all my life?