Right, objective question. I have been trying to meet someone for many years now, and I have tried literally everything to meet someone. I have learnt from the best and the worst and all I seem to come away with is the fact that people can't get past how I look. Now, anyone who's read many of my posts will know I go on about this a lot, and I think its a fair point. Im 5'8, 230 lbs, 42 inch waist, big jowelly cheeks, trebble chin and recessed jaw, nose is off at an angle and pig like in appearance. I get spat at in the street, its that bad. (and yes, I've been thin, I look even worse) I've tried internet dating and all i seem to meet are people who just exist to play headgames (and my last girlfriend, who defrauded me of £1000). And obviously, I can't start a relationship with anyone in person because: A: They can't get past how I look B: Im too nervous to speak to people because of how they judge me C: I've even stopped leaving the house unless I have to. Now, recently I got LJBF'd (Lets Just Be Friends'd: I abbreviate it, it happens so much) and I got spoon fed the usual bullshit and doublespeak: Womanese: "Its not you, its me" Trans: "It is you" Womanese: "Im not ready for a relationship right now" Trans: "At least not with you dipshit" Womanese: "I'm focusing on my 'career'." Trans: "My training and studying for my career is extremely boring and tedious yet more exciting then you'll ever be." I'll admit, its a pretty cynical way of looking at things, but its how I happen to feel about it. I look at the idiots I see upsetting girls I care about and I think that, honestly, were I to be given the chance, I could make someone really happy. Im 25, I dont really want much out of life, I just want to meet someone, fall in love, have kids and not end up going on Jeremy Kyle. Im just starting to wonder if thats too much to ask for. I'll be the first to admit I've done some crappy stuff in my time like killing my best friend, beating the shit out of someone who sold my friends sister drugs and loads of other crap, but I believe deep down Im a good person. I just want to be happy and it seems like this is too much to ask for. So my question is this. Will I ever meet someone who can look past how I look and see me for who I am? I honestly don't believe theres someone for everyone, and if I somehow do nothing someone will appear eventually. Do I just keep hoping or should I just accept the fact that Im a monster? PS: Pics wise, Facebook me and you can see them, im not shoving them up on here.