I know it is crazy/weird to take online relationships seriously. However, I was chatting and webcamming with this guy since Christmas. It gave me some comfort to know he'd always be online. Due to my classes, I just spend sooo much time indoors now doing work and this was a nice escape without leaving my house... Here is the problem: He was always interested in me and messaged me first. I made little to no effort. I was also planning to visit him after the semester lets out. This was his idea. Now, when we are online, I always have to make the effort to contact him. It really hurts. His status is always set to online 24/7. Monday, he did not reply to any of my messages. After I pretty much made myself sound really desperate and needy, he finally replied and told me he was sleeping. Today, he is also ignoring my messages. If he really didn't want to talk to me, how come he doesn't put me on block?? I think he probably just doesn't want to hurt my feelings. About a week ago, he was texting me that he loved me.. Now, nothing. :unsure: I feel so pathetic.. I even ruin online relationships. How did this happen? Any advice on how to spice it up again??? I just feel so stupid. I was thinking of ignoring him for a month.