1. This site uses cookies. By continuing to use this site, you are agreeing to our use of cookies. Learn More.


Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by xXWhateverItTakesXx, Dec 5, 2008.

  1. xXWhateverItTakesXx

    xXWhateverItTakesXx Forum Buddy

    I had a meeting with a woman called Melinda today. She is so lovely, I have known her since July, but we have onl just started working together again today. I went to see her about moving out of this hell house. She explained all the different ways I could move out, to where ect.

    I ended up filling in a form with her which basically means in a few weeks I could be moved into a "house" with a lot of other young people. But I got a meeting on Monday..she asked me if I wanted to move right away. But I don't know..This is so hard..It's hard to break away, and I don't know if I am strong enough..

    Ugggh D:
  2. JustPernicious

    JustPernicious Well-Known Member

    Change can be scary. But if its into a potentially better situation I think it'd be worth the risk.
    I was in foster care for almost a year when I was 17.
    Its not always the best place, but sometimes its better than home.
    Good luck.
  3. snowraven

    snowraven Well-Known Member

    If where you are at the moment is in a hell house then I'd suggest you get out of there as soon as you can. Best wishes.:smile:
  4. xXWhateverItTakesXx

    xXWhateverItTakesXx Forum Buddy

    Thanks guys. I've been thinking this over for hours now, and I will be until Monday.

  5. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Member Safety & Support SF Supporter

    Hi, I think you should just go with what you feel is right. If you don't feel ready then don't do it. Don't get pressured into doing something you may regret. I hope you make the right decision, I wish you the best of luck :hug:
  6. xXWhateverItTakesXx

    xXWhateverItTakesXx Forum Buddy

    If I don't do it now I never will. I'm scared because I don't know what the future holds..But I have been trying to escape for the last year and now I can.

    I found out my closest mate it on the same scheme, so that helps me a bit.

    I just gotta take a deep breath and do this..Im shit scared but I don't have a choice.

  7. Anime-Zodiac

    Anime-Zodiac Well-Known Member

    Although the future can be scary cuz it's unknown but it also hold many surprises. I'm sure you will be just fine. Also you have your friend on the same scheme so your not alone.