I'm one of these people who never seem to get a break, but recently it's been particularly bad. I went to see my step dad a couple months ago, his girlfriend was out visiting family so it was just me and him. He anounced he had feelings for me ect, even flashed me.. I'm old enough to be able to deal with that kind of thing.. but unfortunatly when I was younger I was abused by my next door neighbour, then again a couple years later by my older brothers best friend. So my step dad kind of threw me for a loop, either way I went home to find one of my friends staying at my place, We got a takeout and started watching a movie... As soon as the light was off he forced himself on me... I guess it's normal.. But my heads all messed up I can't even hug my boyfriend.. I'm still convinced I Made these things happen... just thought talking about it might have helped me.. who knows. Thanks.