I don't think it's stupid...I felt that way after the guy I was last with dumped me. Well, he didn't actually dump me, he left without as much as a word, and cut off any form of contact I could have had with him. I felt really blindsided because I wasn't aware there was anything wrong with the relationship---things were fine on my end, and if there was something he was unsatisfied with, he sure didn't let me know. I've been heartbroken by everyone and I wonder if it's worth it to go on...but I think it is. The tides could turn at any time and you could meet the love of your life. So please, don't give up because of this.