personally i think it's pretty fucking stupid to be accepting a roll up from my sister when i have asthma. or sitting in a non ventilated area with her drunk. sometimes she says sorry and i say it's fine, and open all the doors and windows.
i wouldn't break up with someone if they smoked, their body you know, and it doesn't make anyone frightening/violent towards me so :dunno: many of the people who i was around in the past, smoked- as long as they do it away from me.
i was bought up in a house full of drinkers/smokers, no ventilation. my memories are of being under a table, loads of feet, legs, lots of smoke. maybe that's why i developed asthma.
i personally think it stinks but that's just me...:mellow: