Well, some guy was trying to call me gay at work, so I made a snide comment about what his own girlfriend said about him (which I believed he didn't think mattered), and he responded with "coming from someone who's never had a girlfriend!" I asked him where did that come from and he said "it came out of left field" or whatever, didn't buy it. Question is, (obviously any guess is an abstraction), why have others thought the same thing? While it is true, I don't know what I project about myself to give others this perception. I don't lie and make up stories like some guys do. I just don't say much regarding the opposite sex. Any suggestions?