Discussion in 'The Coffee House' started by boo, Nov 4, 2010.
Who do you get better along with? mmm? :mellow:
Opposite sex, definitely
Guys definitely, me and girls are not a very good combination at all.
I typically get along better with people of the opposite sex but I do get along with a few guys too.
Animals or the opposite sex.
I usually get along better with people of the opposite sex, but I have some really amazing female friends too.
Probably the opposite sex, that's not to say I don't get on with people my own sex too.
I prefer invisible people. people who aren't physically around to stab me in the face and make me feel bad about every aspect of everything ever.
I probably get along with everyone equally when it comes to face to face interaction... but that doesn't mean I am good at dealing with people because I am not. not on the inside.
people suck. myself included.
I get along equally well with both sexes, but that doesn't say much since I am by no means a good communicator. :unsure:
Opposite sex. Most definitely. ^_^
Definately the opposite sex...
what about you boo?
Interesting that this came up just now.
Yesterday wasnt very good in that regard, my neighbor came down to pick up a few things.
I've known her and her partner (husband, whatever) for over 25 years, we were part of a group that I left some years ago, and its still a bad situation for me.
It may sound like bragging, but I would say I'm one of the more competent of the men, the guy you would call if you were broke down on the highway, or the roof needs repaired.
I so empathize with women who feel like men just want them for sex.
So, they think I was out of line leaving the group in the circumstances I did (relationship changes, I wont get into the sticky details), but now the old place is falling apart, the "queen bee" is ailing, and my help is wanted.
I have been avoiding the neighbors, not picking up the phone, etc for a while. SHe starts off the conversation with something like "I'm sorry I havnt been touching base with you, things have been busy for me"...sortof shifting the situation from how it is.
I dont even know if she understands that by establishing her footing for the rest of the conversation with something not very conciliatory isnt helping the situation.
With hugs and concern, she proceded to push the wrong buttons on every turn. The guilt card isnt a good one to play, I dont get why some gals cant or wont see that.
I can interract with anyone quite well. I've learnt to come across as normal over the years. In saying that i only have like 2 friends who are women that i actually see. The rest are guys. I don't know what is is, maybe i scare other women, or maybe they just scare me because i like them more then i should. Or maybe because i am not like them.
But then guys scare me too, but for different reasons.
Everybody makes me feel inferior.
Who the fuck knows. I'm rambling.
i get along with people of the female persuasion better maybe its cause im gay idk but i always had very few guy friends that i could consider close and never really felt comfy around all guys groups...women r easier to get along with i think in my experience.
I think I get alone with both equally - I just seem to get along better with those which I can relate to.
Opposite ones, maybe I am a man myself :hamtaro:
I get along better with those who aren't people. Animals :3. I use to say I get along with the opposite sex best, but lately the opposite sex annoys and uses me for wrong just as much as the same sex. I'm just not a people person :nerd: