You let me down again..

Discussion in 'Rants, Musings and Ideas' started by Aimee_in_Wonderland, Jan 5, 2013.

  1. Aimee_in_Wonderland

    Aimee_in_Wonderland Well-Known Member

    I phoned my boyfriend about 5.30am i know it was early but i really needed to talk to him
    What i cant seem to understand is why he couldnt realise a 5.30 phone call means something is wrong...
    He choose to ignore my tears and pleads just to talk to him insted i got
    "Call me back in 8 hours"
    Which to me basically means i couldnt care a less what you have to say,
    If he had stuck around and listened like he always promises he will but never does..
    He hung up because he was tired... Tired! Im tired im stressed and im struggling but i guess its all about him and how he feels.

    Now the last person i thought would help has tired their back in my hour of need..
    I guess im still alone and peoples words never stay true..
  2. paulhewson

    paulhewson Well-Known Member

    Give him another chance and call him back later. Yes, he probably should have talked to you, but he may not have been fully awake and at his best at the time. Don't make the assumption that he doesn't care. I've gotten phone calls at times when I've been so tired, I don't even remember picking up.
  3. Allis

    Allis Active Member

    Be patient.
    I know how dissappointing it is.
    I know how hurtful it can be.
    But you can't say for sure what is going on in his head either...
    So give him another chance and maybe he'll redeem himself.