^ I don't think there is
@Livelife at least not that I know of. (Sorry)
@may71 sorry I thought I had replied to your Sept.1 post but I see now that I never did. Anyway I was thinking maybe if people wanted they could come here and post their bdays, and also whether they prefer bday wishes to be in here, on their profile, in PM or none? Just an idea. Like they could put their username, then bday, then preference if they have one. If they don't then just their username and bday. I'll start it then and hopefully someone else will post after. Whenever a new one is added the other ones should all be kept with it so that it will always have everyone's bday on it. Hope that makes sense. Ok here's mine then:
JMG - Sept.6 (posting anywhere is fine) 
(When next user posts their bday under this, please copy this ^ above as well and delete the text in these brackets) so the list will be like this:
JMG - Sept.6
Next person username - Their bday
Next person - Bday
Etc...