I need advice

[18 and in trouble]

So, I live with my mom as I cannot live on my own. She's invited guests over to stay before and I have never been a fan. They haven't worked out either. Now, she wants to do it again with some staying with us for a month. Advice on how to deal with this would be appreciated.

 

[Astrid78]

Hey, I'm wondering if you have your own room? Perhaps you could see if your friends would let you crash with them a few nights a week?
Also would your mom be open to having a discussion about this? Perhaps you could tell her how this makes you feel.
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[18 and in trouble]

Hey, I'm wondering if you have your own room? Perhaps you could see if your friends would let you crash with them a few nights a week?
Also would your mom be open to having a discussion about this? Perhaps you could tell her how this makes you feel.
Hugs @18 and in trouble

Thanks and the answer is no. But, we can figure this out.

 

[Astrid78]

Thanks and the answer is no. But, we can figure this out.

I'm sorry you have to go through this
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[18 and in trouble]

I'm sorry you have to go through this
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Thanks once more

 

[SamB]

Perhaps you can have a talk with the guest and set up some expectations before they stay. If you can express what it is that has caused you trouble with previous guests then maybe it can simply be avoided this time.