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Jim's Cafe - Sunday, Sept 29, 2024 - "three words"

Lisa the Ferrociraptor

I'm all things, and so are you
Staff Alumni
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#21
Hey @Angie, another really interesting question. It's a tricky one, cos it's a challenge for my newfound self-esteem, given the old me would have wanted to just come up with 3 insults for myself. :D
Thanks for opening, and thanks to @cymbele for tagging me. *hug*hug

What three words describe you and why?
I'm gonna go with:

Empathetic - I'd like to think i approach most things with a degree of empathy. Not all things i concede, since i'm human, so sometimes things will get under my skin, and i can especially struggle when my empathy for one person or group overrides my empathy for another. But i generally approach things from an empathetic perspective, including on topics that surprise even myself. It's a trait that's done a lot of good for me and the people close to me.

Resilient - I've been through a lot of difficult experiences, and i've had to fight for so much. That's one thing that's especially been brought to light in recent months. And i'd like to think it's all made me into a pretty tough person. Somebody who's patient and tolerant when it's needed/appropriate, but also absolutely refuses to take anyone's crap. Again, i'm not perfect at this, squishy human mortal that i am, but i'd like to think i'm decent at it.

Saved - I mean this in every sense of the term. I feel like i've been rescued from so much these days. I used to try and put a brave face on it before, but i truly thought that i was only here to suffer and struggle, and that if there is a hell, no matter what i did i'd wind up there one day. Whereas now, i'm not saying i'm gonna become some devout Christian or Muslim or anything, but i'm open to the spark of divinity to be found within my humble, flawed self. It's wild how much this newfound peace and happiness could be likened to the rapturous joy people describe when they find god. Even when i'm having an awful day, it's a thousand times better than my best days used to be.
 
#22
Thank you for the tag @Lane
Thank you for opening @Angie

What three words describe you and why?
Difficult questions for me...
Creative because i have been creating crafts and music my entire life.
Trustworthy because i am honest (often times too honest) and people can talk to me about anything knowing i am a safe place.
Odd... so very odd because i have sarcasm for blood and i love "Different". Not to be mistaken with weird lol i am Not weird... but very Odd. Examples: square plates, black utensils, the letter Q (because someone has to) the number 11... the list goes on. Usually with things that are forgotten and unloved.
 

Windhover

meandering home
SF Supporter
#24
❤️ For the tags @Kiwi2016 and @Lane. Thank you for this somewhat challenging cafe @Angie. btw you do come across as quiet, lovely, and thoughtful.

creative
- This can involve very strong & at times out of control emotion, but it's tempered with a certain amount of inborn talent which, thankfully, channels most of it lol. I observe and process visually most of life. I make mental snapshots of literally everything, and fit ideas and actions and life together in an abstract but functional structure in my mind. Well, it's functional with wabi sabi portions.

strong
- Never thought I'd use that word to describe myself but I've made it through several horrid things in my life

light-hearted
- I love love, and humor, how it heals my tummy and chest of stress and sorrow, how it makes my face feel, how other people's eyes light up and how their faces look just as they start to laugh. I also have been known to delight in dark humor, biting sarcasm, and I'm quite hand at drawing wicked caricatures. I actively mostly keep this part of me in check.

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These posts make me grateful for you fascinating people. All of us here on SF: I wish I could read everyone's posts, because, okay it may sound too squishy, but you're beautiful.
 

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