Hello
@daisyyy123 , welcome to the forums! I have been there -- trying to get anything done while depressed can be a big challenge. Here are a few ideas that might work for you.
- do something which is not the most pressing task. example: times when I really needed to do schoolwork, but couldn't force myself to do it. so instead I cleaned for 3 hours or ran errands. This allowed me to use cleaning as an "excuse" to do not do schoolwork, but still let me be productive in general.
- if you are struggling to do anything at all, try starting with small goals. Instead of planning to study for a whole 4 hours, as you might feel the need to, just say "I'm just going to study for 30 minutes today". Over a period of days/weeks you can accumulate momentum and it may feel natural to slowly increase your productivity time.
- Put a task on your favorite calendar app or wall calendar a couple days ahead of time if possible. Seeing the task upcoming can help you set expectations with yourself. When that day comes along, it feels more natural to start to work on the task, since you committed to working on the task at that time. I have had great success with a weekly dry-erase calendar.
- Take a break from fun time to work on something. For example, I can easily get lost in video games for hours. Sometimes I keep playing just because I don't want to figure out something else to do or don't want to be productive. I've learned that if I force myself to take "just a 20 minutes break" with no idea of what I will do, I can end up being productive for 2 hours. That never would have happened if I didn't take what I thought would be a short break.
- have an accountability buddy. This is similar to the wall calendar idea, except instead of telling yourself you are going to do something, you tell someone else. could be your family, friend, coworker, classmate.. you tell them in advance you are going to work on something, and when the time comes you work on it. afterward, you let them know that you worked on it (or not). it can feel good to have a supportive person acknowledge your efforts and push you forward. It's great if they have something they are accountable to you for as well, so that you are supporting each other.
I know our other site members have many great ideas. I hope that you are able to get a couple ideas, try them out, and make a little progress on your studying or housework.