Not sure if this is viable or not but I am assuming you're in the US—could you go to a country with more afforable healthcare? If you're looking at $35k to have it all done then a $1-2k trip, while certainly expensive, would still save you a heck of a lot of money. Some countries offer free healthcare, I don't know about dental care. Some countries things are just much less expensive. When I was in India I paid $20 for a checkup and cleaning at the dentist. $20 total. No insurance, nothing else. Again, I don't know where you are or what travel might be available to you, but it might be worth looking into.
Whatever happens, hope it works out.