It all started with MySpace, I've long since deleted mine but I'm still in contact with him. He requested me through a friend of his and we talked and hit it off almost right away. Then when his ex b/f was brought into the mix, that's when it turned sour, very sour. His ex cheated on him several times, seven times I believe and he still has a place in his heart which makes my stomach churn. The man I'm still interested in is a farmer and is busy most of the time...he barely has time to write me anymore and I feel like he doesn't care about me at all. I try calling him, texting him, but he never replies to me. He has no problem answering the calls of others though apparently, which depresses me to no end.
During these four years I've been hurt so badly by this man and yet I continue to hang on, like I have some hope left in my heart that he'll realize someday how much I love him. We live far apart but we're in the same state. It still makes it difficult for him and I to see each other...but even when I've brought it up he avoids the subject entirely or makes an excuse as to why he can't see me. It only makes me feel like he doesn't care or love me at all. He says he does but I don't believe him anymore.
It could be part of my thought disorder, I believe certain people in my life talk bad about me behind my back and make fun of me. Even people I was once close with. I find it hard to believe anything he says anymore, I want to believe he cares but I can't anymore.
I'm seeing a therepist to sort out my problems and I'm taking medicine for social anxiety and depression. My therepist told me I was on medicine that was completely wrong for me. So now I'll be making a trip to see a well known doctor in my area to get some testing done and change medicine.
I had an appointment with my therepist today but it was cancelled I'm very dissapointed, I really needed to talk to her about everything.
Yesterday I cried several times, I thought maybe it was because I forgot to take certain pills. It can affect me very quickly if I don't. I cry sometimes thinking about things like if things could have been different between him and me. He'll never give me a chance though...
I told him in a letter I had thoughts of suicide lately and he didn't say anything to it. He talked about his troubles and was on his way. It hurt me, horribly. I was crying out for help to him and it felt like he threw it aside like it was nothing.
This is all I can say right now, I'm sure I've missed A LOT but I don't want to write a book :laugh:
Thanks for reading!
~Ivy
During these four years I've been hurt so badly by this man and yet I continue to hang on, like I have some hope left in my heart that he'll realize someday how much I love him. We live far apart but we're in the same state. It still makes it difficult for him and I to see each other...but even when I've brought it up he avoids the subject entirely or makes an excuse as to why he can't see me. It only makes me feel like he doesn't care or love me at all. He says he does but I don't believe him anymore.
It could be part of my thought disorder, I believe certain people in my life talk bad about me behind my back and make fun of me. Even people I was once close with. I find it hard to believe anything he says anymore, I want to believe he cares but I can't anymore.
I'm seeing a therepist to sort out my problems and I'm taking medicine for social anxiety and depression. My therepist told me I was on medicine that was completely wrong for me. So now I'll be making a trip to see a well known doctor in my area to get some testing done and change medicine.
I had an appointment with my therepist today but it was cancelled I'm very dissapointed, I really needed to talk to her about everything.
Yesterday I cried several times, I thought maybe it was because I forgot to take certain pills. It can affect me very quickly if I don't. I cry sometimes thinking about things like if things could have been different between him and me. He'll never give me a chance though...
I told him in a letter I had thoughts of suicide lately and he didn't say anything to it. He talked about his troubles and was on his way. It hurt me, horribly. I was crying out for help to him and it felt like he threw it aside like it was nothing.
This is all I can say right now, I'm sure I've missed A LOT but I don't want to write a book :laugh:
Thanks for reading!
~Ivy