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[Link]

A girl I really like, who is also my friend, I don't wanna feel this way about her but I can't help but do, I told her how I felt, and she said he would never see me in that way...

The thought of her perhaps with someone else makes me feel so crap. I don't know what to do...what should I do? I just want to tell her I want to look after her and put my arms around her, just keep her safe and with me . I just love her so much and I don't even know anymore.

 

[Stranger1]

Hey Link,
Welcome to the forum!! You are far better off knowing up front that she doesn't see you in that way..You are friends and I think you wouldn't want to loose that..I know it's tough feeling the way you do, but you would feel even worst if you two got together and found out it wasn't going to work. It could cause you to loose that friendship...take care!!

 

[Link]

Hey Link,
Welcome to the forum!! You are far better off knowing up front that she doesn't see you in that way..You are friends and I think you wouldn't want to loose that..I know it's tough feeling the way you do, but you would feel even worst if you two got together and found out it wasn't going to work. It could cause you to loose that friendship...take care!!

Yeah, that's what I keep telling myself. It's hard though ant it.:laugh:

 

[mdmefontaine]

hi hun. welcome to s.f. it is REALLY tough, the situation you described.. i have been there. . and it hurts. but, no matter what some may say, caring for and loving others is a good thing - and it is important that we give love, not just 'take' it. . . you will find someone who returns your love, if you continue to keep a heart open to love.

i am here if you need to talk - pm me anytime. it is tough to be heartbroken, so lean on us here - :console: