75 Questions to ask yourselves

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  1. resistance

    resistance Staff Alumni

    I just stumbled across what looks like a good site (http://www.lyved.com/life/75-questions-to-ask-yourself/), some of the articles look helpful and this caught my attention and thought I'd share. Perhaps by answering these questions you will come to realise what you need to change, or perhaps even learn to accept the person you already are. Feel free to reply to the questions in this thread, either all at once or in chunks. Or you can do it in your own time and use the questions as a reference point - entirely up to you. I hope it ends up being helpful.

    I will most likely end up answering these questions in my blog (link in sig). Perhaps 10 at a time or something as 75 questions is a lot!

    1. Why not me?
    2. Am I nice?
    3. Am I doing what I really want to do?
    4. What am I grateful for?
    5. What’s missing in my life?
    6. Am I honest?
    7. Do I listen to others?
    8. Do I work hard?
    9. Do I help others?
    10. What do I need to change about myself?
    11. Have I hurt others?
    12. Do I complain?
    13. What’s next for me?
    14. Do I have fun?
    15. Have I seized opportunities?
    16. Do I care about others?
    17. Do I spend enough time with my family?
    18. Am I open-minded?
    19. Have I seen enough of the world?
    20. Do I judge others?
    21. Do I take risks?
    22. What is my purpose?
    23. What is my biggest fear?
    24. How can I conquer that fear?
    25. Do I thank people enough?
    26. Am I successful?
    27. What am I ashamed of?
    28. Do I annoy others?
    29. What are my dreams?
    30. Am I positive?
    31. Am I negative?
    32. Is there an afterlife?
    33. Does everything happen for a reason?
    34. What can I do to change the world?
    35. What is the most foolish thing I’ve ever done?
    36. Am I cheap?
    37. Am I greedy?
    38. Who do I love?
    39. Who do I want to meet?
    40. Where do I want to go?
    41. What am I most proud of?
    42. Do I care what others think about me?
    43. What are my talents?
    44. Do I utilize those talents?
    45. What makes me happy?
    46. What makes me sad?
    47. What makes me angry?
    48. Am I satisfied with my appearance?
    49. Am I healthy?
    50. What was the toughest time in my life?
    51. What was the easiest time in my life?
    52. Am I selfish?
    53. What was the craziest thing I did?
    54. What is the craziest thing I want to do?
    55. Do I procrastinate?
    56. What is my greatest regret?
    57. What has had the greatest impact on my life
    58. Who has had the greatest impact on my life?
    59. Do I stand up for myself?
    60. Have I settled for mediocrity?
    61. Do I hold grudges?
    62. Do I read enough?
    63. Do I listen to my heart?
    64. Do I donate enough to the less fortunate?
    65. Do I pray only when I want something?
    66. Do I constantly dwell on the past?
    67. Do I let other people’s negativity affect me?
    68. Do I forgive myself?
    69. When I help someone do I think “What’s in it for me”?
    70. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me?
    71. Do I smile more than I frown?
    72. Do I surround myself with good people?
    73. Do I take time out for myself?
    74. Do I ask enough questions?
    75. What other questions do I have?
     
  2. Petal

    Petal SF dreamer Staff Alumni SF Supporter

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  3. anarulesmenow

    anarulesmenow Well-Known Member

    1.Why not me?Because I'm worthless
    2. Am I nice?No
    3. Am I doing what I really want to do?No
    4. What am I grateful for?I was grateful for her but she's gone now
    5. What’s missing in my life?her/Love
    6. Am I honest?Sometimes
    7. Do I listen to others?I try
    8. Do I work hard?No
    9. Do I help others?i try
    10. What do I need to change about myself?Everything
    11. Have I hurt others?yes so much
    12. Do I complain?yes
    13. What’s next for me?dunno
    14. Do I have fun?nope not really
    15. Have I seized opportunities?no
    16. Do I care about others?yes
    17. Do I spend enough time with my family?probably not
    18. Am I open-minded?yes
    19. Have I seen enough of the world?no
    20. Do I judge others?yes
    21. Do I take risks?no
    22. What is my purpose?there isn't one
    23. What is my biggest fear?that she will be gone
    24. How can I conquer that fear?i can't anymore
    25. Do I thank people enough?no
    26. Am I successful?no
    27. What am I ashamed of?me
    28. Do I annoy others?probably
    29. What are my dreams?for her
    30. Am I positive?no
    31. Am I negative?yes
    32. Is there an afterlife?i wish
    33. Does everything happen for a reason?maybe
    34. What can I do to change the world?die?
    35. What is the most foolish thing I’ve ever done?lose her
    36. Am I cheap?yes
    37. Am I greedy?yes
    38. Who do I love?rayych wragg
    39. Who do I want to meet?rayych wragg again
    40. Where do I want to go?far away
    41. What am I most proud of?nothing
    42. Do I care what others think about me?yes
    43. What are my talents?dunno
    44. Do I utilize those talents?n/a
    45. What makes me happy?her
    46. What makes me sad?her
    47. What makes me angry?her
    48. Am I satisfied with my appearance? nooooo
    49. Am I healthy?no
    50. What was the toughest time in my life?still is
    51. What was the easiest time in my life?in the womb
    52. Am I selfish?wish not but yes
    53. What was the craziest thing I did?fall in love
    54. What is the craziest thing I want to do?die for her
    55. Do I procrastinate?yes
    56. What is my greatest regret?losing her
    57. What has had the greatest impact on my life? rayych
    58. Who has had the greatest impact on my life?rayych
    59. Do I stand up for myself?no
    60. Have I settled for mediocrity?yes
    61. Do I hold grudges?yes
    62. Do I read enough?yes
    63. Do I listen to my heart?too much
    64. Do I donate enough to the less fortunate?no
    65. Do I pray only when I want something?no
    66. Do I constantly dwell on the past?yes
    67. Do I let other people’s negativity affect me?yes
    68. Do I forgive myself?nope
    69. When I help someone do I think “What’s in it for me”?sometimes
    70. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me?yes
    71. Do I smile more than I frown?dunno
    72. Do I surround myself with good people?no
    73. Do I take time out for myself? no
    74. Do I ask enough questions?no
    75. What other questions do I have? Do I really owe the world anything?
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  4. lost43215

    lost43215 Well-Known Member

    1. Why not me? I dont understand this question tbh
    2. Am I nice? Ya, course
    3. Am I doing what I really want to do? I havent decided... if yes, ya
    4. What am I grateful for? All my caring friends and family
    5. What’s missing in my life? A gf... and social skills
    6. Am I honest? Always... unless it deals with my plans to suicide
    7. Do I listen to others? Always... love to listen to others
    8. Do I work hard? If it's something i like, for sure
    9. Do I help others? When i can... im not the best, but i try
    10. What do I need to change about myself? My self-confidence, social skills...
    11. Have I hurt others? I sure hope not... i hate whenever i do
    12. Do I complain? No... lol... once there was hair in my order... i didnt even complain... made a friend complain for me
    13. What’s next for me? To figure out if im living or not... and if i am... what the heck im going to do for a career cause i have no clue
    14. Do I have fun? Do i? lol... if im in a good mood.. all the time
    15. Have I seized opportunities? When theyve come... ya... well, maybe not as much effort lately
    16. Do I care about others? For sure... once i get to know them, i care for them more than anything else in the world
    17. Do I spend enough time with my family? Prob not... but me and my family dont really have similar interests
    18. Am I open-minded? Very... always try everything once.... very little exceptions
    19. Have I seen enough of the world? Def not... id love to travel the world
    20. Do I judge others? Never
    21. Do I take risks? Lol... mostly
    22. What is my purpose? To grow up and contribute to society's economy for the better of the whole. Well, the purpose forced on me. Id like mine to be to help everyone i can.
    23. What is my biggest fear? Heights... or falling from them.
    24. How can I conquer that fear? Make sure im strapped tight :laugh:
    25. Do I thank people enough? I think so... i try, prob not tho
    26. Am I successful? Lol... no
    27. What am I ashamed of? My porn collection :whistling:
    28. Do I annoy others? I hope not... i hate when i do... im so paranoid
    29. What are my dreams? To please a woman :)... and to help others
    30. Am I positive? With others ya... with me... no
    31. Am I negative? Very seldom
    32. Is there an afterlife? Nope
    33. Does everything happen for a reason? Well, kinda... scientifically yes... and we all make choices...
    34. What can I do to change the world? If there was an answer to that which also meant i wouldnt have financial problems... id do it
    35. What is the most foolish thing I’ve ever done? I dont think there is one... just like regrets... dont have em. Mind u applying for jobs with no cover letter or references could be one, lol
    36. Am I cheap? LMAO.... ppls presents are usually $50... and that's just for friends.
    37. Am I greedy? Never... if i had a million... i take what it would take to pay off debts and give rest to charity
    38. Who do I love? I dont know... i think of love a very strong thing that takes a while to fully develop so...
    39. Who do I want to meet? A bunch of ppl who are famous... idk why... and the friends i havent seen yet in person... oh, and a bunch of ppl from here.
    40. Where do I want to go? Australia... yumm... and all over the world
    41. What am I most proud of? Who ive become... personality wise i mean
    42. Do I care what others think about me? All the time...
    43. What are my talents? I can touch my tongue to my nose and my elbow :tongue:... seriously... can, and i can bend my thumb back 45 degrees
    44. Do I utilize those talents? To show off to my friends, course :laugh:
    45. What makes me happy? Seeing others happy :)
    46. What makes me sad? Seeing others i care about sad :(
    47. What makes me angry? When people are being sh*tty to others or me.
    48. Am I satisfied with my appearance? Ya. At first i wasnt... well, had tons of pimples. That got solved, and now i have a good body, good face... could use better hair... otherwise
    49. Am I healthy? Lol, prob not... i dont feel unhealthy tho. Tho i have started taking vitamins so :)
    50. What was the toughest time in my life? Prob first time i was going to suicide... or actually right b4 i did... cried for prob 15 minutes.
    51. What was the easiest time in my life? Getting into college... got accepted by all that i applied to
    52. Am I selfish? I guess so cause suicide is considered that... otherwise no
    53. What was the craziest thing I did? Run out nude dancing when a neighbour roomie saw :laugh:... or was it doing a kegger
    54. What is the craziest thing I want to do? Skydive... w0000000
    55. Do I procrastinate? Lol, usually when it comes to work yes....
    56. What is my greatest regret? I have no regrets...
    57. What has had the greatest impact on my life? Being bullied in school... and also first suicide attempt
    58. Who has had the greatest impact on my life? My ex-gf actually overall... recently now a friend whom ive met on here....
    59. Do I stand up for myself? Before i never did... now, for sure... ive taken all i could...
    60. Have I settled for mediocrity? Nah... I like randomness and being random and new challenges
    61. Do I hold grudges? No... not really... unless it was really significant
    62. Do I read enough? Not books... but online material read lots, lol, know so many useless facts
    63. Do I listen to my heart? Not really... i listen more with the logic from my brain... im very logical person.
    64. Do I donate enough to the less fortunate? For sure... even tho i might financially need it... whoops, meh, like doing that more
    65. Do I pray only when I want something? I never pray... im athiest
    66. Do I constantly dwell on the past? Not really... i sometimes dwell on what the past has done to me..... so i guess that counts
    67. Do I let other people’s negativity affect me? Ya... usually.... i prob shouldnt tho...
    68. Do I forgive myself? For? I dont have things to forgive myself for
    69. When I help someone do I think “What’s in it for me”? Never
    70. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me? Ya... prob... prob way worse than me.. a few social problems compared to others... for sure. Does it change how i feel about my situation... no.
    71. Do I smile more than I frown? Lol, actually naturally my face is somewhat frowning. When im in a good mood and talking to certain people, it usually is.
    72. Do I surround myself with good people? Ya... i think so... i could prob let more in... but i havent actively done so...
    73. Do I take time out for myself? No... im not worth a timeout really and it wouldnt do anything for me anyways... id rather be helping others
    74. Do I ask enough questions? Lol, ya... i always ask questions... gets the other person to talk more since i have nothing really to talk about. Plus i get to learn a ton about them. Tho some have said it can be a little too much...
    75. What other questions do I have? Do i want to die or not?
     
  5. The_8th_Wonder

    The_8th_Wonder senior Member

    1. Why not me? Shouldn't it be why me?
    2. Am I nice? Not usually
    3. Am I doing what I really want to do? No but I really dont have a choice
    4. What am I grateful for? My parents and a home to live in
    5. What’s missing in my life? Social life, any friends, a stable mental state
    6. Am I honest? Almost never
    7. Do I listen to others? Rarely
    8. Do I work hard? Kind of
    9. Do I help others? I usually dont interact with others
    10. What do I need to change about myself? What dont I need to change
    11. Have I hurt others? Not recently...
    12. Do I complain? No
    13. What’s next for me? Good question...
    14. Do I have fun? Hardly ever
    15. Have I seized opportunities? Haven't had many in my life
    16. Do I care about others? A couple
    17. Do I spend enough time with my family? Not a chance
    18. Am I open-minded? Never
    19. Have I seen enough of the world? Yes
    20. Do I judge others? Yes
    21. Do I take risks? Yes
    22. What is my purpose? To take up space on the Earth
    23. What is my biggest fear? Having my parents find out about my mental state
    24. How can I conquer that fear? Never telling them?
    25. Do I thank people enough? Nope
    26. Am I successful? No
    27. What am I ashamed of? My mental state, my lack of basic social skills
    28. Do I annoy others? No
    29. What are my dreams? Sick and f'ed up
    30. Am I positive? never
    31. Am I negative? Almost always
    32. Is there an afterlife? I ask myself this every single day... I have no idea
    33. Does everything happen for a reason? Nope
    34. What can I do to change the world? Nothing in a positive way
    35. What is the most foolish thing I’ve ever done? Starting self harming
    36. Am I cheap? Nope
    37. Am I greedy? Kind of
    38. Who do I love? My parents and this one girl who doesn't even know I'm here
    39. Who do I want to meet? A therapist
    40. Where do I want to go? Somewhere else
    41. What am I most proud of? My sports knowledge
    42. Do I care what others think about me? Of course
    43. What are my talents? Memorizing things
    44. Do I utilize those talents? Yep
    45. What makes me happy? Seeing people on here succeed
    46. What makes me sad? Seeing people on here fail
    47. What makes me angry? The way the world judges possible rapists who haven't done a single thing wrong yet
    48. Am I satisfied with my appearance? Hell no
    49. Am I healthy? Not really
    50. What was the toughest time in my life? This year probably
    51. What was the easiest time in my life? Elementary school
    52. Am I selfish? I don't think so......
    53. What was the craziest thing I did? No idea....
    54. What is the craziest thing I want to do? Steal a car
    55. Do I procrastinate? Yes
    56. What is my greatest regret? Not stopping myself from crossing the sanity line
    57. What has had the greatest impact on my life? My mental state
    58. Who has had the greatest impact on my life? My parents
    59. Do I stand up for myself? Almost never
    60. Have I settled for mediocrity? I'm happy when it's that good
    61. Do I hold grudges? Always
    62. Do I read enough? I have never read an entire book
    63. Do I listen to my heart? Sometimes... or else I'd be in jail or dead
    64. Do I donate enough to the less fortunate? No
    65. Do I pray only when I want something? No, I don't pray at all
    66. Do I constantly dwell on the past? yep....
    67. Do I let other people’s negativity affect me? Not usually
    68. Do I forgive myself? Never
    69. When I help someone do I think “What’s in it for me”? Sometimes
    70. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me? Yes
    71. Do I smile more than I frown? No
    72. Do I surround myself with good people? No
    73. Do I take time out for myself? No
    74. Do I ask enough questions? No
    75. What other questions do I have? Another one that's one here... what happens after death?
     
  6. fromthatshow

    fromthatshow Staff Alumni

    :giggle: fun!

    1. Why not me? I couldn't tell you
    2. Am I nice? most of the time
    3. Am I doing what I really want to do? no
    4. What am I grateful for? drugs
    5. What’s missing in my life? a car, a place of my own, and a clue
    6. Am I honest? sometimes
    7. Do I listen to others? sometimes
    8. Do I work hard? no
    9. Do I help others? yes
    10. What do I need to change about myself? I need to better accept my condition and start taking steps toward an independent lifestyle. Or co-dependent haha.
    11. Have I hurt others? sure who hasn't at some point?
    12. Do I complain? not often
    13. What’s next for me? my options: move in with Danielle, go back to college, do a long-term volunteer program, kill myself. All seem equally likely.
    14. Do I have fun? not generally
    15. Have I seized opportunities? no
    16. Do I care about others? sometimes
    17. Do I spend enough time with my family? more than enough... I hate my family, except for my Brother
    18. Am I open-minded? sometimes
    19. Have I seen enough of the world? yes
    20. Do I judge others? I'm sure I do sometimes
    21. Do I take risks? sometimes
    22. What is my purpose? I have no purpose besides that which the Holy Spirit gives me, and that is to forgive myself and the world and attain oneness with God
    23. What is my biggest fear? living
    24. How can I conquer that fear? doing things that are life-affirming
    25. Do I thank people enough? sometimes
    26. Am I successful? sure
    27. What am I ashamed of? nothing
    28. Do I annoy others? maybe
    29. What are my dreams? I can't recall most of the time. I usually just end up with a good or bad feeling when I wake up so I know the type of dream but not the detail
    30. Am I positive? no
    31. Am I negative? yes
    32. Is there an afterlife? of course
    33. Does everything happen for a reason? maybe
    34. What can I do to change the world? forgive it
    35. What is the most foolish thing I’ve ever done? incarnate on Earth
    36. Am I cheap? yes
    37. Am I greedy? sometimes
    38. Who do I love? Rachel
    39. Who do I want to meet? Miley Cyrus
    40. Where do I want to go? home
    41. What am I most proud of? my music
    42. Do I care what others think about me? a little
    43. What are my talents? music
    44. Do I utilize those talents? sometimes
    45. What makes me happy? pain-killers
    46. What makes me sad? life
    47. What makes me angry? life
    48. Am I satisfied with my appearance? yes
    49. Am I healthy? no
    50. What was the toughest time in my life? now
    51. What was the easiest time in my life? high school
    52. Am I selfish? yes
    53. What was the craziest thing I did? probably something sexual and inappropriate to share haha
    54. What is the craziest thing I want to do? same as above
    55. Do I procrastinate? yes
    56. What is my greatest regret? breaking up with Rachel
    57. What has had the greatest impact on my life March of last year having the panic attack that still hasn't ended.
    58. Who has had the greatest impact on my life? My Dad (in a negative way)
    59. Do I stand up for myself? no
    60. Have I settled for mediocrity? probably
    61. Do I hold grudges? no
    62. Do I read enough? yes
    63. Do I listen to my heart? not enough
    64. Do I donate enough to the less fortunate? no, I am less fortunate
    65. Do I pray only when I want something? no
    66. Do I constantly dwell on the past? sometimes
    67. Do I let other people’s negativity affect me? I try not to
    68. Do I forgive myself? I try to
    69. When I help someone do I think “What’s in it for me”? sometimes
    70. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me? that's not true
    71. Do I smile more than I frown? no
    72. Do I surround myself with good people? sometimes
    73. Do I take time out for myself? yes
    74. Do I ask enough questions? yes
    75. What other questions do I have? what is happening to me and how can I make it stop?
     
  7. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    None, really.
     
  8. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    Oh, hooray, asking myself these questions has majorly triggered me!
     
  9. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    Somehow I resisted sabotaging one of my few remaining relationships... I don't know whether that's good or bad.
     
  10. worlds edge

    worlds edge Well-Known Member

    If anyone needed proof that in fact I have no life, go here. :tongue: I wasn't doing anything today, so I figured I'd answer the questions. Good grief, did I ever. :eek:hmy:

    (Not that I expect anyone to do this, but if you download [upper right on the screen] the PDF the hotlinks sprinkled through the file do work. But they don't on the preview.)
     
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  11. resistance

    resistance Staff Alumni

    I'm sorry if it triggered you, the main purpose of the questions are to help you examine yourself and life and hopefully the starting point to improvement, to be encouraged and motivated for change.
     
  12. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    Eh, it's really no worry. Everything triggers me.
     
  13. aoeu

    aoeu Well-Known Member

    I think for me any question about my life is one I shouldn't think about. Sorry for derailing the thread
     
  14. wheresmysheep

    wheresmysheep Staff Alumni

    1. Why not me? cause i dont want it
    2. Am I nice? to a degree
    3. Am I doing what I really want to do? no but i cant do what i want
    4. What am I grateful for? nothing
    5. What’s missing in my life? a sense of completeness
    6. Am I honest? yes
    7. Do I listen to others? yes
    8. Do I work hard? no
    9. Do I help others? yes
    10. What do I need to change about myself? everything
    11. Have I hurt others? yes
    12. Do I complain? yes
    13. What’s next for me? nothing
    14. Do I have fun? no
    15. Have I seized opportunities? yes and failed
    16. Do I care about others? yes
    17. Do I spend enough time with my family? no
    18. Am I open-minded? yes
    19. Have I seen enough of the world? people - yes, places - no
    20. Do I judge others? yes
    21. Do I take risks? to often
    22. What is my purpose? to die
    23. What is my biggest fear? having more of my humanity ripped away
    24. How can I conquer that fear? there isnt a way
    25. Do I thank people enough? no
    26. Am I successful? no
    27. What am I ashamed of? that i am so fucking weak
    28. Do I annoy others? yes
    29. What are my dreams? to be rid of my deamons, be a tattoo artist, have my own house and stables.
    30. Am I positive? no
    31. Am I negative? yes
    32. Is there an afterlife? no
    33. Does everything happen for a reason? yes
    34. What can I do to change the world? what thing - get rid of religion.
    35. What is the most foolish thing I’ve ever done? cheated/moved home
    36. Am I cheap? no
    37. Am I greedy? no
    38. Who do I love? stephen, sam, est, v, alan :tongue:
    39. Who do I want to meet? sam, alan, v, est, sam2, moree but my brains not working
    40. Where do I want to go?no where tbh
    41. What am I most proud of? being deemed good enough to learn tattooing
    42. Do I care what others think about me? yes to a degree.
    43. What are my talents? nothing
    44. Do I utilize those talents? nope
    45. What makes me happy? shopping, spending money (taht i dont have)
    46. What makes me sad? everything lol i'm emo
    47. What makes me angry? ignorant closed minded self centered people
    48. Am I satisfied with my appearance? it'll do
    49. Am I healthy? no
    50. What was the toughest time in my life? about 2 years ago, when i was coming to the end of my first lease in my appartment.
    51. What was the easiest time in my life? when i was 0-3yrs old
    52. Am I selfish? yes
    53. What was the craziest thing I did? drank too much tequiella and *blur*
    54. What is the craziest thing I want to do? prob take acid. but i wont do it
    55. Do I procrastinate? all day
    56. What is my greatest regret? being lazy
    57. What has had the greatest impact on my life? idk too much
    58. Who has had the greatest impact on my life? stephen
    59. Do I stand up for myself? yes
    60. Have I settled for mediocrity? probably
    61. Do I hold grudges? yes
    62. Do I read enough? no
    63. Do I listen to my heart? sometimes
    64. Do I donate enough to the less fortunate? no
    65. Do I pray only when I want something? no
    66. Do I constantly dwell on the past? no
    67. Do I let other people’s negativity affect me? yes
    68. Do I forgive myself? no
    69. When I help someone do I think “What’s in it for me”? no
    70. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me? yes
    71. Do I smile more than I frown? no usually do niether
    72. Do I surround myself with good people? no people
    73. Do I take time out for myself? yes
    74. Do I ask enough questions? yes
    75. What other questions do I have? too many. why? how? when? who?
     
  15. helena

    helena Staff Alumni

    1. Why not me?because I don't deserve it
    2. Am I nice? people say so
    3. Am I doing what I really want to do?absolutely not
    4. What am I grateful for? healthy children
    5. What’s missing in my life?happiness
    6. Am I honest?mostly
    7. Do I listen to others?yes
    8. Do I work hard?sometimes
    9. Do I help others?sometimes
    10. What do I need to change about myself?beeing born?!
    11. Have I hurt others?yes
    12. Do I complain?yes
    13. What’s next for me?more of the same
    14. Do I have fun?rarely
    15. Have I seized opportunities? a very few
    16. Do I care about others?a lot
    17. Do I spend enough time with my family?far not as much as I wish
    18. Am I open-minded?yes
    19. Have I seen enough of the world?no
    20. Do I judge others?try not to
    21. Do I take risks?yes
    22. What is my purpose?raise my kids as good as possible
    23. What is my biggest fear?the future
    24. How can I conquer that fear?dont get there
    25. Do I thank people enough?no
    26. Am I successful?no
    27. What am I ashamed of?my lazyness
    28. Do I annoy others?I bet I do
    29. What are my dreams?move back to my homecountry,get rich,die soon
    30. Am I positive?not at all
    31. Am I negative?absolutely
    32. Is there an afterlife?no
    33. Does everything happen for a reason?I'm not sure
    34. What can I do to change the worldnothing
    35. What is the most foolish thing I’ve ever done?not going to uni
    36. Am I cheap?not anymore
    37. Am I greedy?a bit I guess( read 29)
    38. Who do I love?my children, my mom,a few other people and this guy
    39. Who do I want to meet?the love of my life
    40. Where do I want to go?home
    41. What am I most proud of?giving birth
    42. Do I care what others think about me?not much
    43. What are my talents?languages
    44. Do I utilize those talents?a bit
    45. What makes me happy?the atlantic ocean
    46. What makes me sad?my life
    47. What makes me angry?disrespect
    48. Am I satisfied with my appearance?was more 15years ago
    49. Am I healthy?I have no physical problems; I smoke
    50. What was the toughest time in my life?first year after breaking up
    51. What was the easiest time in my life?between 0 and 8
    52. Am I selfish?no
    53. What was the craziest thing I did?sleep in a fuel station
    54. What is the craziest thing I want to do?bungee jump
    55. Do I procrastinate?all the time
    56. What is my greatest regret?move away from home
    57. What has had the greatest impact on my life my faillures
    58. Who has had the greatest impact on my life? my father
    59. Do I stand up for myself?no
    60. Have I settled for mediocrity?no
    61. Do I hold grudges?no
    62. Do I read enough?not anymore
    63. Do I listen to my heart?not allways
    64. Do I donate enough to the less fortunate?yes
    65. Do I pray only when I want something?no
    66. Do I constantly dwell on the past?no
    67. Do I let other people’s negativity affect me?sometimes
    68. Do I forgive myself?no
    69. When I help someone do I think “What’s in it for me”?no
    70. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me?yes
    71. Do I smile more than I frown?no
    72. Do I surround myself with good people?...nor bad people
    73. Do I take time out for myself?no
    74. Do I ask enough questions?no
    75. What other questions do I have?will I ever be happy?
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  16. Alexpt2

    Alexpt2 Well-Known Member

    1. Why not me? No, the question is, WHY ME!
    2. Am I nice? I dunno, am I?
    3. Am I doing what I really want to do? This is what i've choosen so I guess so
    4. What am I grateful for?that the liqour stores in my area are now open on Sundays
    5. What’s missing in my life?Too much to list here
    6. Am I honest?*crosses fingers* yup
    7. Do I listen to others?huh? what was the question again?
    8. Do I work hard?hardly work is more like it
    9. Do I help others?If I do its purely by accident
    10. What do I need to change about myself?My underwear, its been a few days
    11. Have I hurt others?sadly yes
    12. Do I complain?what? what kind shit is this? I never fucking complain, this is bullshit, these questions are crap
    13. What’s next for me?I'm on a suicide forum, take a wild guess
    14. Do I have fun?i've been known to from time to time
    15. Have I seized opportunities?I try to
    16. Do I care about others?I try not too lol
    17. Do I spend enough time with my family?spend no time with them, which is quite enough for me
    18. Am I open-minded?I'd like to think so
    19. Have I seen enough of the world?nope
    20. Do I judge others?of course, who doesn't?
    21. Do I take risks?only when drunk/high
    22. What is my purpose?dont think I have one
    23. What is my biggest fear?that these questions will never end
    24. How can I conquer that fear?just man up and finish them lol
    25. Do I thank people enough?when its warrented yes, i'm not an ingrate
    26. Am I successful?ha, thats funny
    27. What am I ashamed of?to ashamed to say it here
    28. Do I annoy others?probably
    29. What are my dreams?A few nights ago, I dreamt I was being chased by this gigantic snake and then all of a sudden my mother appeared out of nowhere, only she looked different and was wearing this fucked up mask and...............eh, how is this relevant?
    30. Am I positive?not very often
    31. Am I negative?proud to be a pessimist
    32. Is there an afterlife?why speculate?, we all get to find out one day anyway
    33. Does everything happen for a reason?dont think so, think its all random
    34. What can I do to change the world?take myself out of it
    35. What is the most foolish thing I’ve ever done?joined the military
    36. Am I cheap?I prefer the term, thrifty
    37. Am I greedy?no
    38. Who do I love?noone
    39. Who do I want to meet?brooke burke, cause she's hawt
    40. Where do I want to go?anywhere but here
    41. What am I most proud of?dont know
    42. Do I care what others think about me?not anymore
    43. What are my talents?I can out drink anyone
    44. Do I utilize those talents?all the time lol
    45. What makes me happy?not much
    46. What makes me sad?thinking about past failed relationships
    47. What makes me angry?again, thinking about past failed relationships lol
    48. Am I satisfied with my appearance? I don't care anymore
    49. Am I healthy?as healthy as a chain smoking alcoholic can be
    50. What was the toughest time in my life?my time in the service
    51. What was the easiest time in my life?now, cause I dont do jack shit
    52. Am I selfish?most definitly
    53. What was the craziest thing I did?If I post it here, mods will delete it
    54. What is the craziest thing I want to do?again, cant say it here
    55. Do I procrastinate?I don't feel like answering this question now, I'll do it later
    56. What is my greatest regret?lots of them. too many to list here
    57. What has had the greatest impact on my life? my time in the military
    58. Who has had the greatest impact on my life?my mother
    59. Do I stand up for myself?not as much as I should have
    60. Have I settled for mediocrity?Lets see, I live in a tiny 1 bedroom dump of an apt....no friends, no gf, no job, no prospects, I'd say that qualifys as mediocrity lol
    61. Do I hold grudges?you bet i do
    62. Do I read enough?I read the newspaper everyday, does that count?
    63. Do I listen to my heart?how? I dont even own a Stethoscope
    64. Do I donate enough to the less fortunate?one time, I put my extra change in this jar to help kids with cancer or some shit like that
    65. Do I pray only when I want something?i dont pray at all
    66. Do I constantly dwell on the past?yup, big time
    67. Do I let other people’s negativity affect me?nope, my own negativity affects me just fine
    68. Do I forgive myself?for what?
    69. When I help someone do I think “What’s in it for me”?I try not to help people if I can avoid it lol
    70. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me?worse is subjective
    71. Do I smile more than I frown?probably, but dont know
    72. Do I surround myself with good people?I would if I knew some
    73. Do I take time out for myself? thats all I do
    74. Do I ask enough questions? what kind of question is that?
    75. What other questions do I have?
    Does this fucking thing ever end?.......ah, its over, finally
     
  17. reddragon2410

    reddragon2410 Well-Known Member

    1. Why not me? Because there’s always someone better
    2. Am I nice? Not nice enough
    3. Am I doing what I really want to do? No
    4. What am I grateful for? Nothing
    5. What’s missing in my life? Love and Happiness
    6. Am I honest? Completely
    7. Do I listen to others? Those I care about
    8. Do I work hard? Yes
    9. Do I help others? Those I care about
    10. What do I need to change about myself? Everything
    11. Have I hurt others? If they’ve hurt me
    12. Do I complain? Only internally
    13. What’s next for me? Who knows
    14. Do I have fun? Not really
    15. Have I seized opportunities? Nope
    16. Do I care about others? Some
    17. Do I spend enough time with my family? No, but I spend what I want to spend
    18. Am I open-minded? Yes
    19. Have I seen enough of the world? Enough to know I hate it
    20. Do I judge others? All the time
    21. Do I take risks? Not enough
    22. What is my purpose? I have none
    23. What is my biggest fear? Never loving
    24. How can I conquer that fear? I don't think I ever will
    25. Do I thank people enough? No
    26. Am I successful? No
    27. What am I ashamed of? Myself
    28. Do I annoy others? Yes
    29. What are my dreams? I have none
    30. Am I positive? No
    31. Am I negative? Yes
    32. Is there an afterlife? No
    33. Does everything happen for a reason? No
    34. What can I do to change the world? I can’t
    35. What is the most foolish thing I’ve ever done? Not died when I had the chance
    36. Am I cheap? No
    37. Am I greedy? Not really
    38. Who do I love? She doesn’t love me back...
    39. Who do I want to meet? My friends off the internet
    40. Where do I want to go? Away from here
    41. What am I most proud of? Nothing
    42. Do I care what others think about me? I tell myself I don’t, but I think I do subconsciously
    43. What are my talents? I... Can play poker well?
    44. Do I utilize those talents? Not really
    45. What makes me happy? Nothing
    46. What makes me sad? Nothing
    47. What makes me angry? People
    48. Am I satisfied with my appearance? I am hideous
    49. Am I healthy? As far as I can tell
    50. What was the toughest time in my life? Couple of years ago when everything got on top of me
    51. What was the easiest time in my life? When I was a child who accepted what I was told
    52. Am I selfish? Yes and No
    53. What was the craziest thing I did? I don’t do crazy
    54. What is the craziest thing I want to do? I don’t do crazy
    55. Do I procrastinate? Yes
    56. What is my greatest regret? That I didn’t ask her out
    57. What has had the greatest impact on my life? Realising life’s pointlessness
    58. Who has had the greatest impact on my life? My old friend from school (I miss her so much)
    59. Do I stand up for myself? Not enough
    60. Have I settled for mediocrity? I’m just a loser
    61. Do I hold grudges? No but I wish I did
    62. Do I read enough? No
    63. Do I listen to my heart? No
    64. Do I donate enough to the less fortunate? Yes, but I still don’t donate
    65. Do I pray only when I want something? I don’t pray
    66. Do I constantly dwell on the past? Yes
    67. Do I let other people’s negativity affect me? Not usually
    68. Do I forgive myself? No, never
    69. When I help someone do I think “What’s in it for me”? Depends who it is
    70. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me? Yes, and it makes me feel more pathetic
    71. Do I smile more than I frown? I never smile
    72. Do I surround myself with good people? Better than me anyway...
    73. Do I take time out for myself? Not enough
    74. Do I ask enough questions? I ask too many
    75. What other questions do I have? What is it all about?
     
  18. mdmefontaine

    mdmefontaine Antiquities Friend

    1. Why not me? because i'm not good enough, smart enough, or just, ENOUGH
    2. Am I nice? yes.
    3. Am I doing what I really want to do? in part. not everything.
    4. What am I grateful for? my kids!
    5. What’s missing in my life? love
    6. Am I honest? yes
    7. Do I listen to others? i hope so
    8. Do I work hard? i can., when i'm not depressed
    9. Do I help others? i TRY to
    10. What do I need to change about myself? quit being fearful
    11. Have I hurt others? once
    12. Do I complain? yep, busted.
    13. What’s next for me? a REAL life, i hope. authenticity
    14. Do I have fun? YES
    15. Have I seized opportunities? no.the opposite.
    16. Do I care about others? too much. gave up my dreams for others
    17. Do I spend enough time with my family? this is outside of my control. now. but i DID, and hope to again.
    18. Am I open-minded? trying. ..
    19. Have I seen enough of the world? no! hope not
    20. Do I judge others? nope
    21. Do I take risks? YES
    22. What is my purpose? to be good to people
    23. What is my biggest fear? FAILURE
    24. How can I conquer that fear? take bigger risks.
    25. Do I thank people enough? hope so.....
    26. Am I successful? not by my own measure. to me, success means peace and love
    27. What am I ashamed of? my longing to have a permanent romantic lover
    28. Do I annoy others? oh geez, probably
    29. What are my dreams? love, peace, acceptance
    30. Am I positive? not lately....
    31. Am I negative? well, yes lately!
    32. Is there an afterlife? yes. but not sure what. . . exactly goes on there
    33. Does everything happen for a reason? jury is still out on that
    34. What can I do to change the world? help one person. then they help someone. chain reaction
    35. What is the most foolish thing I’ve ever done? leaving someone who cared for me to be with someone who does not
    36. Am I cheap? NO!
    37. Am I greedy? hmm. maybe
    38. Who do I love? my kids. my mom. my friends. (my husband, it's dying...)
    39. Who do I want to meet? mySELF
    40. Where do I want to go? everywhere!
    41. What am I most proud of? my children!!!
    42. Do I care what others think about me? way too much
    43. What are my talents? creative, good cook
    44. Do I utilize those talents? cooking- everyday. creativity - in spurts
    45. What makes me happy? being loved
    46. What makes me sad? rejection
    47. What makes me angry? people who hurt other people!
    48. Am I satisfied with my appearance? for the first time ever.
    49. Am I healthy? yes, physically
    50. What was the toughest time in my life? NOW. husband dumping me.
    51. What was the easiest time in my life? when kids were like, 4 and 9. . .ish.
    52. Am I selfish? no.
    53. What was the craziest thing I did? move to a foreign country
    54. What is the craziest thing I want to do? skydive!
    55. Do I procrastinate? i'll answer this. . . tomorrow. ...
    56. What is my greatest regret? not realizing that i matter
    57. What has had the greatest impact on my life the realization that in having 'no answers' to the meaning of life - i have THE answer....
    58. Who has had the greatest impact on my life? my CHILDREN!
    59. Do I stand up for myself? not before. but i will from now on. . ..
    60. Have I settled for mediocrity? yes, many times.
    61. Do I hold grudges? no
    62. Do I read enough? there is no such thing as ''enough'' reading. . .
    63. Do I listen to my heart? i keep my ears open . ..
    64. Do I donate enough to the less fortunate? i try. and this is something i will always try to do more of.
    65. Do I pray only when I want something? yes and no. yes yes yes, but other times too
    66. Do I constantly dwell on the past? no, at least i don't think so- i try to look forward
    67. Do I let other people’s negativity affect me? like a sponge....
    68. Do I forgive myself? that is a tough one
    69. When I help someone do I think “What’s in it for me”? no. . . .
    70. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me? oh yes. . .
    71. Do I smile more than I frown? normally - but not as of late
    72. Do I surround myself with good people? i have done this, for the most part
    73. Do I take time out for myself? no
    74. Do I ask enough questions? not the right ones.
    75. What other questions do I have? too many to write here.. and can only be answered, within
     
  19. xan

    xan Chat Buddy

    May have messed about a little bit...
     
  20. RyanKey=MyLife

    RyanKey=MyLife Well-Known Member

    I don't like big words :( lol
     
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