I just stumbled across what looks like a good site (http://www.lyved.com/life/75-questions-to-ask-yourself/), some of the articles look helpful and this caught my attention and thought I'd share. Perhaps by answering these questions you will come to realise what you need to change, or perhaps even learn to accept the person you already are. Feel free to reply to the questions in this thread, either all at once or in chunks. Or you can do it in your own time and use the questions as a reference point - entirely up to you. I hope it ends up being helpful. I will most likely end up answering these questions in my blog (link in sig). Perhaps 10 at a time or something as 75 questions is a lot! 1. Why not me? 2. Am I nice? 3. Am I doing what I really want to do? 4. What am I grateful for? 5. What’s missing in my life? 6. Am I honest? 7. Do I listen to others? 8. Do I work hard? 9. Do I help others? 10. What do I need to change about myself? 11. Have I hurt others? 12. Do I complain? 13. What’s next for me? 14. Do I have fun? 15. Have I seized opportunities? 16. Do I care about others? 17. Do I spend enough time with my family? 18. Am I open-minded? 19. Have I seen enough of the world? 20. Do I judge others? 21. Do I take risks? 22. What is my purpose? 23. What is my biggest fear? 24. How can I conquer that fear? 25. Do I thank people enough? 26. Am I successful? 27. What am I ashamed of? 28. Do I annoy others? 29. What are my dreams? 30. Am I positive? 31. Am I negative? 32. Is there an afterlife? 33. Does everything happen for a reason? 34. What can I do to change the world? 35. What is the most foolish thing I’ve ever done? 36. Am I cheap? 37. Am I greedy? 38. Who do I love? 39. Who do I want to meet? 40. Where do I want to go? 41. What am I most proud of? 42. Do I care what others think about me? 43. What are my talents? 44. Do I utilize those talents? 45. What makes me happy? 46. What makes me sad? 47. What makes me angry? 48. Am I satisfied with my appearance? 49. Am I healthy? 50. What was the toughest time in my life? 51. What was the easiest time in my life? 52. Am I selfish? 53. What was the craziest thing I did? 54. What is the craziest thing I want to do? 55. Do I procrastinate? 56. What is my greatest regret? 57. What has had the greatest impact on my life 58. Who has had the greatest impact on my life? 59. Do I stand up for myself? 60. Have I settled for mediocrity? 61. Do I hold grudges? 62. Do I read enough? 63. Do I listen to my heart? 64. Do I donate enough to the less fortunate? 65. Do I pray only when I want something? 66. Do I constantly dwell on the past? 67. Do I let other people’s negativity affect me? 68. Do I forgive myself? 69. When I help someone do I think “What’s in it for me”? 70. Am I aware that someone always has it worse than me? 71. Do I smile more than I frown? 72. Do I surround myself with good people? 73. Do I take time out for myself? 74. Do I ask enough questions? 75. What other questions do I have?