Well, it's like this. I'm 90% sure a girl I was close to for many years has been making herself sick. For the past 2 years I've had very little contact with her, but I still feel like I should do something... So it's either be really blunt, try rebuild the friendship or leave it to the people she's with. I'm leaning towards the out of nowhere message asking 'do you throw up?'. Maybe because of our history she'll be more open? Or maybe it's a terrible idea. Opinions please? :dunno: I'd be really thankful for some advice.