I was sent to boarding school at the age of seven, to a school on the other side of the country, for nearly ten years. I left nine years ago, but have only very recently realised what effect my education had on me.
Having broken down over my 'failure' at GCSE level (I got As and Bs) during a tutorial at university, I was sent to counselling. It's only since then that I began to research the effects of boarding school. It's incredibly scary to read psychologists' descriptions - they're all about me! I realise now that every aspect of my personality has been shaped by my horrific school experiences.
The more I read, the more disgusted I am by the whole system, although on the outside and in 'real life', I would never admit it, and have very conflicting thoughts about it.
I just wondered if anyone else here is an ex-boarder, because I would be very interested to hear your views, especially as I don't really have anyone to talk to about it.
Mim
Having broken down over my 'failure' at GCSE level (I got As and Bs) during a tutorial at university, I was sent to counselling. It's only since then that I began to research the effects of boarding school. It's incredibly scary to read psychologists' descriptions - they're all about me! I realise now that every aspect of my personality has been shaped by my horrific school experiences.
The more I read, the more disgusted I am by the whole system, although on the outside and in 'real life', I would never admit it, and have very conflicting thoughts about it.
I just wondered if anyone else here is an ex-boarder, because I would be very interested to hear your views, especially as I don't really have anyone to talk to about it.
Mim