I get pissed off at anything and everything that makes me feel like I'm being abandoned, neglected, or disrespected. And even if my feelings are too intense for a particular situation, and they usually are (by the majority's opinion)...they still provoke the BPD rage to come out before I can convince myself that perhaps its not as big a deal as it seems. So if my fiance wants to go somewhere without me, he's abandoning me. If he wants to play with the dog, he's neglecting me. And if he doesn't realize or understand how these things make me feel, he's disrespecting me. And any one of those actions, in my mind, means he doesn't care about me, which means he hates me, which means I should feel pissed off and miserable. Such is an example of black and white thinking turned to BPD rage, and then possibly depression/suicidal feelings when that person doesn't respond to your little outburst very kindly. Just wondering if anyone else goes through similar things.