So after ten years of marriage and several years mostly alone,I need to get out there and find someone. However, a number of people, medical professionals, friends/family etc. say I'm not in the right frame of mind or not mentally ready for it. So my question is, How do you know you ARE ready. I mean, what if my anxiety and depression never change, then what do I do. Second part of the question is, at what point in the relationship do you tell your partner you have mental health problems? Obviously lying about it seems like a bad idea, so what then?