Dreading the weekend

[sadhart]

The last few weekends have been unproductive and discouraging. With this being an extended weekend, I guess I'm feeling like I'm going to squander it. I'm not sure I really want to go out,especially Saturday, and I'm trying to stay busy doing things inside. The problem is I'm just not motivated. I find myself feeling so tired. Honestly, I'm not even sure where I'm going with this. I'm sorry for just rambling.

 

[Sad Elf]

Hi @sadhart .

I hate the weekend s too. I always start off wanting to achieve loads and end up doing very little. Maybe choose like 2 things I want to achieve and see if that's possible ? A it of the time I sleep which I know I shouldn't but......

Hope it goes as well as it can.

SadElf

 

[Lady Wolfshead]

I've read that a lot of people dread weekends who are depressed and/or alone. Especially long weekends. I usually do what @Sad Elf suggests and set a few goals and try to achieve them. Including a long walk or workout. Then I feel good at least for accomplishing my goals.

 

[may71]

Honestly, I'm not even sure where I'm going with this. I'm sorry for just rambling.

It's ok to talk about what you're thinking and how you're feeling.

The last few weekends have been unproductive and discouraging.

If there's something that you want to do, or that's productive, that can be good to do, but there's no need to feel guilt or self-critical if you don't do anything. It's ok to have a lazy weekend.

 

[iloverachel]

my friend
i understand how you feel. I also dread most days

 

[Saffypoiu]

The last few weekends have been unproductive and discouraging. With this being an extended weekend, I guess I'm feeling like I'm going to squander it. I'm not sure I really want to go out,especially Saturday, and I'm trying to stay busy doing things inside. The problem is I'm just not motivated. I find myself feeling so tired. Honestly, I'm not even sure where I'm going with this. I'm sorry for just rambling.

Me too. I was going to go for a walk today then go to the stores. But this never happened because all I've done for the past few hours is lay down in bed just staring at the walls. I do this a lot these days.

 

[Sad Elf]

@sadhart was thinking about you today. Hope you have had an ok day.

 

[AvidFan]

I hope the weekend passes for you with as little suffering as possible.

 

[sadhart]

@sadhart was thinking about you today. Hope you have had an ok day.

I did a little bit but it's been okay. I'm thinking I may try doing an early morning drive to the store tomorrow.

 

[Sad Elf]

@sadhart , hope you made it to the store. I didn't have such a good day today, it not awful. Back to the comforting routine of weekdays tomorrow.

 

[Lady Wolfshead]

@sadhart , hope you made it to the store. I didn't have such a good day today, it not awful. Back to the comforting routine of weekdays tomorrow.

It's a long weekend (labour day) in many countries.

 

[Anchorchain]

It's a long weekend for me too and I'll be alone but that's my normal anyway. I'll be baking and then freezing bread for next Saturday's farmers market and my only companion will be the TV on a news channel. I need to clean and tidy my house.....living alone without anyone else to see the place, I've gotten into a bad habit of letting the grunge and clutter accumulate. That can be bad for one's morale. OK, tomorrow morning when the first batch of bread is rising, I'll have an hour to mop the kitchen floor......it's in a quite dreadful state. If I accomplish that and then sort out the clutter on the dining room table as well as bake three batches of bread (12 loaves).........the day will have been satisfactory.
It would be nice to have a few laughs and hang out with a few friends but that's not gonna happen.

 

[sadhart]

@sadhart , hope you made it to the store. I didn't have such a good day today, it not awful. Back to the comforting routine of weekdays tomorrow.

I went out this morning and it went okay. For some reason, I seem to feel sick on sundays. Like headache, nausea kind of feeling, but i don't know why.

Sorry your day wasn't good. Hope the rest of the week will be.

 

[sadhart]

It's ok to talk about what you're thinking and how you're feeling.

If there's something that you want to do, or that's productive, that can be good to do, but there's no need to feel guilt or self-critical if you don't do anything. It's ok to have a lazy weekend.

I tried to write down some things in preparation of my next therapist appointment. Don't feel i did a good job with it though.

 

[sadhart]

I've read that a lot of people dread weekends who are depressed and/or alone. Especially long weekends. I usually do what @Sad Elf suggests and set a few goals and try to achieve them. Including a long walk or workout. Then I feel good at least for accomplishing my goals.

I think I managed to do a few small things. It kind of helped somewhat.

 

[sadhart]

I'm sorry, I need to say this. Living really hurts, you know? Like, I can try to do things like drive or go through my stupid comic collection, but something happens that just reminds me of how I can never be worth love and acceptance. And yes, I know that I have said this before but I say it because I constantly am reminded of it in some way or another. And it hurts so much. I'm just tired of this pain in my life. I'm tired of life.

 

[iloverachel]

I'm sorry, I need to say this. Living really hurts, you know? Like, I can try to do things like drive or go through my stupid comic collection, but something happens that just reminds me of how I can never be worth love and acceptance. And yes, I know that I have said this before but I say it because I constantly am reminded of it in some way or another. And it hurts so much. I'm just tired of this pain in my life. I'm tired of life.

I am sorry my friend
I wish there's a way to help
Life is cruel, kind caring people like you deserve love and acceptance

 

[nicktheundoer]

I'm sorry, I need to say this. Living really hurts, you know? Like, I can try to do things like drive or go through my stupid comic collection, but something happens that just reminds me of how I can never be worth love and acceptance. And yes, I know that I have said this before but I say it because I constantly am reminded of it in some way or another. And it hurts so much. I'm just tired of this pain in my life. I'm tired of life.

☹️☹️☹️you do deserve to be loved and to be accepted but first it must come from you..you need to accept and love yourself..I'm pretty sure you'll find insane amount of rest when you start to love and accept yourself..HUGS friend..

 

[sadhart]

I am sorry my friend
I wish there's a way to help
Life is cruel, kind caring people like you deserve love and acceptance

Thank you, but I don't really feel I'm a kind or caring person.

 

[sadhart]

☹️☹️☹️you do deserve to be loved and to be accepted but first it must come from you..you need to accept and love yourself..I'm pretty sure you'll find insane amount of rest when you start to love and accept yourself..HUGS friend..

I won't say that isn't true. But often, I feel people are able to do that when they have positive reinforcement in their lives. As in not being rejected constantly or walking through a store and being laughed at, which is something that happened recently. Sorry, it's just a lot of assholes out there who don't get the meaning of loving others and yet, they easily find it. Doesn't make sense.