I know flowers has mentioned EDNOS before, but I wanted to say something too. I struggle with EDNOS, and it's hard not to go into denial. The thing though is that I really wanted to encourage people who have even a sneaking suspicion that someone has an eating disorder... to speak up. Have a heart-to-heart, or if you're the one struggling, don't be afraid to ask for help. People loved you before and will still love you no matter what.