Yesterday, I posted a status on Facebook about the pros & cons of having a fake, white Christmas tree & none other. My brother-in-law got annoyed & decided to voice his opinion about how he thinks I'm too negative & that I just need to be more positive & post status updates about what I'm thankful for & not things I'm unhappy about. He thinks that if I "think positive" I'll just suddenly be happier… A very similar way my parents think. His messages shattered me. He means a lot to me… He's family. He's my husbands only brother & his best friend. That makes him mean even more to me. He hurt me so deeply & I don't know what I've ever done to him to make him be so mean to me. This isn't the first time he's been rude but he was more so this time than any other. And on top of it, my husband took my side & told his brother to "shut to F up" & that he's tired of him treating me like sh*t. He then told him that unless he stops acting like an a**hole to not talk to him. I would never want to cause trouble between my husband & his family. They mean a great deal to him & to me. So I don't know what to do to fix this… I've done nothing to him. He's never been like this in person. He's always nice & smiling… but just as soon as he gets on Facebook, he decides that he can speak to me however he wants… Like I'm the cause for him being unhappy or something. Can anyone give me some advice on how to handle this situation?? I don't know how to handle this. I've never been in a situation like this before.