Ghosted?

[Astrid78]

To me, the worst part of being ghosted is the not knowing. This person has just abruptly left my life, without any word, are they dead? Sick of me? Offended,I'll, what? Its hard for me as I dont really have a lot of friends and deeply appreciate the few I have so not knowing the why of it is difficult for me to accept. And I will wonder for the rest of my life, what became of them.

 

[Witty_Sarcasm]

I hate this too. And I have BPD so I worry about being abandoned a lot. It's hard to not know the answers. I'm sorry you're dealing with this.

 

[Cagla]

Yeah it does suck… especially you still send him messages over messages maybe 100 messages and there’s no answer and you know he doesn’t want it but you still send them… it is hard but it shows how coward they are to be honest how coward they are that they can’t say hey I don’t fucking want you … so it is good maybe we don’t have that kinda coward people in our lives..

 

[WildCherry]

I understand. I still wonder, many years later, what happened to a person who ghosted me. It sucks.

 

[Astrid78]

Thanks everyone for replying, I feel like something's wrong with me for worrying about a person who just left, but it feels wrong for me to feel angry, like what if they are dead... while I'm sad y'all understand, it's also comforting to know it's not just me.

 

[may71]

I hate that ghosting has become such a common thing. It's just so selfish and cowardly.