Discussion in 'Grief and Bereavement' started by Tungsten Aromatics, Dec 24, 2013.

  1. My Grandmother whom I was very close to died in 2004 when I was 14.

    I still cry when I visit her grave.

    At least I'm able to cry, able to express the feelings that I've held in for so long...
  2. flowers

    flowers Senior Member

    I am sorry your grandmother died when you were only 14. I know how devistating loss can be. I think I would cry if I went to my father's grave. I dont go there because it is in a different state. I think you are wise to see that crying is good. It honestly is.Talking about it and crying will help. I still feel sad though about my father and it has been more than 30 years. I dont think thats abnormal. But it is veyr important to properly grieve.
  3. Witty_Sarcasm

    Witty_Sarcasm Writer, Musician, Fun Lover, Magic Maker

    My grandma died almost 21 years ago, and it still really bothers me, so I know how much it can hurt. It's good that you are able to let your emotions out, because it's bad to hold it all in.
  4. total eclipse

    total eclipse SF Friend Staff Alumni

    Hugs to you ok