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[HelplessH]

Yep - no where else to turn - started writing goodbye letters today

 

[Lekatt]

No one is helpless. You have only to ask for help and it will appear. There are dozens of people right here on this forum that will help you. Please ask and give the way we may help. Let us know. You shall know the truth and it will make you free. Please tell us how. Love

 

[Sad Elf]

Hi,

Welcome to the forum. We are a good bunch here, tel us abit about what brought you here. There are plenty of people ready to lisen.

Take Care
Elf

 

[Livelife]

Hi there,

I'm glad you found this forum. Please share any further about you and your situation....Many people here will read and receive whatever you have to say without judgements or criticisms. Take good care, hope to see more from you.

 

[HelplessH]

The last 13 14 years have been hell, including ivf - resulting in pregnancy and miscarriage, hysterectomy, which led to separation and then divorce , met someone new children are awful to me , their dad no better , gaslighter manipulative , coercive , narcissistic led me to have mental breakdown this year leading to me moving out , losing job, home ,dog etc I’m really done with it all, now I work shitty job to make enough money to pay the council and government and have not a lot left over what’s the point

 

[may71]

I'm sorry that you've been through so much. It's especially difficult when you go from one traumatic experience to another, and you've had several.

 

[Windhover]

You are welcome here @HelplessH . In one respect, you've written a hello to us. Please don't give up on your life. Many of us here understand about trauma. You're safe here.

I hope you stay around, and that you find some communication here which helps.

 

[HelplessH]

So low and vulnerable

 

[may71]

I'm sorry that you're feeling so bad.

A lot of folks here reach a low point, but even though it seems impossible at the time, things get better.

 

[LumberJack]

I feel similar, @HelplessH. I am trying to keep in mind the idea of impermanence, which is that everything is constantly changing. So even though this seems permanent, it will pass. That sort of helps me, but I have been trying to get better and it feels like I am merely slowing my descent. I'm sorry you are feeling low.

 

[HelplessH]

Thanks everyone

 

[Waves]

The last 13 14 years have been hell, including ivf - resulting in pregnancy and miscarriage, hysterectomy, which led to separation and then divorce , met someone new children are awful to me , their dad no better , gaslighter manipulative , coercive , narcissistic led me to have mental breakdown this year leading to me moving out , losing job, home ,dog etc I’m really done with it all, now I work shitty job to make enough money to pay the council and government and have not a lot left over what’s the point

So so sorry you are hurt. Noo e deserves that at all You deserve love and support. I pray you get that in person.

 

[KM76710]

Yep - no where else to turn - started writing goodbye letters today

Sad to hear that you are in such a state now, but this is a great place and people to turn to and join in with, you have a place here with us and I hope that you keep coming back and posting.